My father just met this women about 3 monthes ago and now she is haveing his baby. My sister has three kids and i have one should i accept this or say something to him?
2006-10-11 09:07:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you love your dad? and want a relationship with him? It may come down to the point that you accept or have know relationship with your dad. try to look at his side of the story to. Talk to him but DO NOT be critical of him just ask questions on his feelings he may be scared to. you are his child to so he may want you involved. Hey I had a uncle 9 months older than me. We always had a great time growing up.
2006-10-11 09:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can say! He is a grown man and free to do as he please. If told you he had 3 babies on the way there would be nothing for you to say.
You and your sister are grown as well. As long as he is happy and has no problem neither should you...
Congratulate him and let it go. You thinking could had more stress to an already stressful situation whether or not if he had 4 grandchildren or if this were his 1st child.
Accept it I am pretty sure there were things that you chose to do that he didn't approve of but he supported you. Do the same for him.
I don't see the point any adding drama.
2006-10-11 16:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean.. my mum was the same ...it's all wrong it should never happen...
It's in considerate of them to do some thing like that
Why!!! because instead of loving there grandchildren and
having time with them ..they have there own child to care for.. to look after.. and love more then there grandchildren..
Before any body says they can do both ..I say nonsense
they can't ..there one first ..and everybody Else's second..
selfish people...I watch my nephews and nieces missing the love they deserved from grandfather and grandmother....sad
2006-10-11 16:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It`s not up to you to say a word to your father.It`s none of your concern.If you want to get a little tissy fit because dad is happy and found a new love and gonna bring another child into this world then stay clear of the child and never get into the childs life.He/she dont need bs in her/his life like this.Either be a loving big sis or stay away.
2006-10-11 16:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you say???
Is he asking YOU to pay for it? To raise it? If not, MYOB.
First, it's too late for him to keep it in his pants.
Second, it's his reproductive life and if he wants to sire 50 kids, it's his choice not yours.
Third, $5 says he was under 30 when he fathered you, and that now, he's wanting to recapture his youthful feeling of being a new daddy, etc.
Sorry, hon, MYOB.
2006-10-11 16:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What choice do you have,that is reasonable and logical? He is a grown man,i am sure that if you were in a situation he did not approve of you would expect him to understand and accept it is your life! You don't have to like it, you just have to respect the fact he will be responsible for his life, not you! By the way ,i wouldn't like it either.
2006-10-12 10:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by wecair2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation your father remain strong and active
2006-10-11 16:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by shrek7187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just make the best of it cause you don't want to lose your dad.. you will always need him so just deal with it and make the best of it and hey its not a bad thing if your dad is happy about it .. it will be OK
2006-10-11 16:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by nobodysangel2469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too late now. you will have a brother or sister welcome them into the family. by all means it is not the child's fault that ur father found love again late in life.
2006-10-11 16:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by and now you know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really no big deal my daddy had 18 kids and his youngst 2 our younger then mine and if he is happy then be happy for him and let him know you are there for him and the new baby
2006-10-11 16:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl_79068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋