I put up some pictures around the house the other day and found one of my bf and his Mom together so I put it above our bed I though it looked really good, He called me a sick b i t c h and stormed out what the hell is wrong with a pic. of your Mom above your bed ? I was gonna add one of his Grandparents too, Bad idea?
2006-10-11 09:06:44 · 32 answers · asked by candidworker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-11 09:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship does he have with his mom/family?....may have an impact! Around the house should be ok.....but above the bed....bad idea. Most men would not want a picture of mommy looking over their bed. Do the nasty...bend over my girl and see a pic of mom......no way.
2006-10-11 09:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep those pictures to the common areas, for a few reasons:
1. It's very hard to be romantic and sexual with your mom and nana watching.
2. The bedroom is your private space. Pictures of the two of you would be better.
3. Pictures of Mom in the Living Room get instant points for the both of you when Mom comes to visit.
2006-10-11 09:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by tkj3395 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pix of your parents don't belong in the bedroom - even if they look good there. My ex-husband has an oil portrait of his mom on his dresser - but not a single photo or portrait anywhere in the house of his children. I would take down the mom/son photo & put it in a family room or in the hall with the other relatives. Perhaps in the future you should consult with him about which photos you hang in the bedroom . . .
2006-10-11 09:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its kute i would do the same lol whats up with ur bf? he ok? well everyone thinks alittle bit differently but try placing pictures of them somewhere else like try a photo album maybe he thinks that placing them above the bad is nasty or he has a dirty mind? something happened to him? i dont see any harm in what you did.. though try to understand why he dont want them there maybe he dont like his mom ..to aviod any misunderstandings with your bf respect what he said and ask him where he thinks those pictures should be at.
2006-10-11 09:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by 411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he said what he did because he doesn't want to be having sex with you and look up and see a picture of his mother. I would definitely talk to him though about calling you a b i t c h. That was totally out of line.
2006-10-11 09:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's difficult for him to look at a picture of your mom while in bed with you. It's still not okay to call you a b i t c h though.
2006-10-11 09:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. he may not have a great relationship with his mother.... 2. no man wants a picture of his mother above his bed, where clearly sexual activities will take place. could you imagine be in your bed with your boyfriend and right there is a picture of your mother staring at you... thats really creepy.
2006-10-11 09:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lin B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is kind of sick. Does he have a good relationship with is mother?
And even if he does just think about this, how are you gonna feel when you are riding him and you look up and see his mother staring down at you?
2006-10-11 09:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by shaqmc21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't want to have my mom looking at me while i am doing things with my wife in bed... maybe u shouldn't be in a relationship with a guy that talks to u that way!
and where is the communication? why arent u talking to him about this?
2006-10-11 09:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i agree move the pic.. dont add the grandparents.. those DO NOT belong in the bedroom.. try the living room... he may have had a bad past with his parents you never know...
2006-10-11 09:10:13 · answer #11 · answered by Kit-E-Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋