My g/f said that we should have a break for a few days? what dose this mean? She said she wasn't breaking up with me and we're still going out and loves me but we need to have a "break" from each other? I'm lost dose this mean she wants to see other people? not talk to me? what?
2006-10-11 08:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by menotyou9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's only for a few days, she probably just needs some space. Try waiting a few days and then talking to her about it. Generally when people take a "break" though, it's only a short time before a temporary break becomes a permanent one.
2006-10-11 08:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Been there before, on both sides of the equation. "Taking a break", in most cases is a softer way of leading to a break up. I've heard (and used) the excuses, "I think we just need some time apart" or "Let's just see if we miss each other".
Anytime I wanted to "take a break", I was just looking for sometime away to come up with a better reason to break up. Sometimes it was to see other people, other times it was that I just wanted out. Most people in good relationships don't tend to take breaks, they stick it out.
Not telling you what to do, but be aware, it sounds like she's looking for a way out.
2006-10-11 16:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ezenbrowntown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She means that she is probably thinking about u 2 much.......Take a break cos it's the best for ur relationship. She still likes u but u just need to give her some space cos she's got 2 much going on. GOod Luck!!!
2006-10-11 15:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that you two are together way to much and she is feeling like she has no time to herself .. she just needs some girl time.. hang out with some friends .. other people no just you all the time.. shes not wanting to break up she just needs some time with out you there all the time its OK everyone needs there time to do stuff with other people and if she doesn't get that then it might come to you to breaking up so just look at this as a good thing .. good luck
2006-10-11 16:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by nobodysangel2469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that she just needs some time to herself or with other friends. Do you hang out evreyday? Talk evreyday? She may be a little overwhelmed at the moment. I do not think that you need to worry about it. If she can tell that you are worrying about it then she is going to re-think her intentions of the break. Everyone needs alone time, so use this time to think about things yourself.
2006-10-11 15:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its doesn't mean the worst. I did a few weeks ago. She maybe going through some issues that she's not proud of or what to bring into the relationship. She just wants sometime to compose herself.
2006-10-11 16:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear that is a good question to ask her. Unless you get the right
psychic you will get a thousand answers and none of them will be .........
well hers. usually a break is a temporary break up its a woman's way to get some space to think and or prepare for the real deal .
2006-10-11 15:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has a date with another guy during that "break" and doesn't want to cheat on you. since you would be "broken up" during that time.. whatever she does with him would be fine.
you need to tell her how you feel and what you want. if she doesn't want the same thing then just end it. don't be used like this.
2006-10-11 15:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is just time for a "vacation." She probably just needs a couple days to just breathe and concentrate on herself, like she did before you became a couple. It is great to have someone, but also great for ones mental health to just be alone once in awhile.
2006-10-11 15:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by cloverrae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okey, if she think in that way than go for a break. That may generate some more love to you.
2006-10-12 03:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋