I know this seems like a stupid excuse, but I know her she says nothing unless she's means it completly 100% sincerly. She says she likes me too much and she wants to leave me now because when we go of for university next summer it will hurt her too much, so better split up now. I'm not really sure how to deal with this....
2006-10-11 08:45:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she wants to break up, that is her option regardless of the reason.
2006-10-11 08:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know that a trying to keep up long distance relationship can be a strain on anyone. I would suggest that you see where things go right now, you still have almost a year before you both go to different schools. Enjoy the moment, and the time that you have together.
2006-10-11 15:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by vabanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it could be true. Actually, I did the same thing to my guy last week, because I thought if he ever broke up with me, it would just hurt too damn much. So I figured, let me do it before I get in too deep, and maybe it won't be so bad.
I was wrong. It hurt like hell, and we made up the next day.
So, honey, if she loves you, she will be back. Try to talk to her and think of a way to stay with her.
2006-10-11 16:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you know how much it is going to hurt but you would rather spen the rest of your day's before college enjoying them with the person you love rather than hurting. No matter what the both of you decide, it's going to hurt eventually. Ask her to take a chance.
2006-10-11 15:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think it means is that she realizes that the relationship will go nowhere and she sees no way to keep it so she might as well end it now. It really will save the heartache in the short run.
Respect her wishes as you would want her to respect yours.
2006-10-11 15:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still talk to each other, but once you are gone and apart for a while it will be easier to communicate in a friendly way.
2006-10-11 15:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just give her time she will come running back to you, you watch. OK my bf did that same thing to me but it was for an lds mission and now he is with some other girl and i just learned to move on..
2006-10-11 15:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would make her think you're going to hurt her? If you really love her and want to keep her, then demonstrate it, or if you're thinking, deep in your heart to have a 'college party time' then split up...
2006-10-11 15:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS JUST A EASY WAY OUT. AND A BIG FAT EXCUSE.I THINK SHE FIGURES THAT MAYBE SHE WILL FIND SOMEBODY IN COLLEGE. TELL HER TO COME WITH A BETTER EXCUSE BECAUSE THAT ONE WE USE TO USE THAT BACK IN 1989
2006-10-11 15:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by mzshake33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man she wants this now becaus she found another guy, n waiting to cheat on you while your in college is a long ways from now. sorry dude hate to brake it to ya like this...
2006-10-11 15:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by ikthes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋