i can't get a boy freind.........super sad.....i'm 5'4....105 lbs.......have dark blonde hair.......friendly and flirtatous......can any1 give me some tips on guy getting?
2006-10-11 08:39:48 · 49 answers · asked by pink_luver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, it's not your fault. Sometimes guys are totally intimidated by beautiful girls, like you. It's part of their immaturity, but it'll pass once you get into your Junior or Senior year of high school (if you're not that old yet.). Or maybe you just haven't been finding the right guys; it's better to have a guy worth having then having a bunch of a-s-s-e-s that only want a piece of yours.
I have the same prob as you...I'm 5''4, 100 lbs, have long dark blonde beachy waves, and am totally friendly, flirty, and know how to flaunt sex appeal. But the guys I'm trying to get are either too immature to notice, or not into girls at this age. Try waiting another few years, and you'll get the bf of your dreams. Just be patient.
2006-10-11 08:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how old you are, where you live, and what your actvities are.
My advice is to think through the things you enjoy doing, and do them in a way and in an environment where there are guys present who you have a chance to talk to. Not just guys but the type of guys you're interested in. If you don't like sports fans and tall athletes, no point hanging around basketball games.
Once you put yourself out there, just be yourself and don't worry about it. Smile, be nice to people, dress nicely within reason, and flirt a little bit but only as much as you can do comfortably. Touch people's hands or arm when talking to them, hug goodbye, tease them or let yourself be teased. Look them in the eye. Believe me, guys will be interested.
If you know any "popular" girls you should watch how they interact in public for signs of what you can be doing, and signs of things you don't want to do. It's a mistake to hang on the coattails of someone else, though. They might block your eforts and besides, a girl alone is a lot easier for guys to approach than a pack of girls.
There are a million steps from there to a real boyfriend but that should get you something to work with.
2006-10-11 08:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Monso Orda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh oh I love these questions. Okay you're blonde, this should be easy....
Right, so a little short, excellent, if you don't have any already, get out and buy some sexy stilettoes, they improve your posture and will make you look incredibly sexy, the key is make up, don't wear too much or too little. Keep it down to concealer, a touch of blusher, mascara and a lick of lipgloss, keep your hair cute. Loose curls are good with stilettoes, maybe cut a side fringe?
Now you've got the girl friend look, the biggest thing is your confidence. Try to feel comfortable in your own skin, when you're with a guy you like, keep eye contact, SMILE, play with your hair, then bite your lip and look down with a cheeky smile.
Darling, I'm sure you've got what it takes to get a guy. Make sure you don't look out of their league. You need to be super sexy and lovable, but at the same time, you need have the girl next door personality.
Good luck and have fun!
ps, you've put me in the mood to do a bit of guy getting, it's really fun stuff.
2006-10-11 08:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby focus your attention on something else, once you quit looking you'll find what you want, sounds strange but it's true! and go subtle on the flirting that could actually be keeping guys at a distance, shy guys can be intimidated by it, and most guys think you may keep doing it once your their girlfriends so they don't want to go that route with you. It may end up just attracting a guy that wants "1 thing" if your looking for a meaningful relationship go easy on the flirting. Save it for a guy that's already asked you out, not a public setting.
2006-10-11 08:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by she 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to include your age.
My suggestion is to just relax. When you're desperate it expels the wrong type of chemistry.
This could lead to more than you bargained for.
I don't mean to sound fatherly, just let me give you this one tip.
Make acquiring knowledge be your main focus. The boys will come and go. How smart YOU are though is what will determine how far you go.
2006-10-11 08:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for a guy. Try and execute confidence in yourself and a guy will find you. If try to hard to find a guy I have found that it is usually because you are letting yourself get in the way. Just stop trying so hard and start acting like yourself and sooner or later a guy will find you.
2006-10-11 08:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first explain to my what dark blonde hair is, cause i thought blonde was bright, and never heard of darkl blonde... anyways you cant get a boyfriend, and those are your crudentials, hmmm, if you were surrounded by virgins or gay guys i feel you, but if you cant get a guy and thats your description your either painfully shy or you are lying, so if your painfully shy then please go to the nearest bus stop or bowling alley and hang out there with no panties on, it will work out
2006-10-11 08:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 12:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that you are looking for it to happen too hard. try to go to different places to hang out than you normally do. do you have girlfriends? have a girls night out where yall pick a different place each week to go - somewhere new - and then you will meet all kinds of new people. there is no secret recipe to findin a man. you usually find them when you are not looking...
2006-10-11 08:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~bashyful~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is a certain someone you like hang out with him for a while do some stuff just as friends and get to know him a bit. let him know who you are and when the time is right maybe hell ask you out or you could even ask him out
2006-10-11 08:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋