i need someones help, the guy that im going to be with who i think is awesome has strong feelings about girl loosing their virginity at an early age. im wondering if i should lie and say im still a virgin or tell the truth and telll him that i am not. if i tell him im not a virgin im scared that hes not going to want to be with me.
2006-10-11 08:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by 305chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is that shallow to dump you because you aren't a virgin was he really worth being with you to begin with? Also, why start out a relationship with a lie? They will get easier and easier to say and do as the relationship goes on and it will just jinx it. Be honest from the beginning, who knows he might actually be testing you.
2006-10-11 08:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by cvkv2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, don't start things out with a lie. If he will not want to be with you for that reason alone, then you would be better off knowing that now. Just imagine after you have a lot invested in a relationship and he finds out and pull out of the relationship. There is a lot more damage that can be done if that happens. Don't Lie...
2006-10-11 08:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...
Tell him the truth. Becuse telling lies just screws up relationships. So if you realy like him just say. Yea.. I'm not a virgin but I regret what I did. I realy like you so please dont leave me just becuse of that.. or something along those lines. If he leaves you JUST for that then he isent worth you time anyways. It wouldent have worked out anyways. (if he does leave) But yea tell the truth. Belive me word will get around and he will find out. And he will be sooo mad when he finds out. Thats if you dont tell him ofcorse.
2006-10-11 08:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your a virgin, unless there is a chance he could run into one of the 42 guys before him.
2006-10-11 08:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by ©ubs Fan™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the truth because if he has beliefs which sounds like he might then to need to upfront w/ and tell him. You dont want to be someone that he wants you to be you need to be yourself so I dont recommend lying about this.
2006-10-11 08:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this isnt an easy question or answer but i would say tell him, a relationship is built on trust nothing more be honest and tell him that it was hard for you to tell him and you hope he understand and if he really likes you than he'll understand
2006-10-11 08:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how about waiting to see if he is the right one for you?? Just because you are dating him it does not mean that you have to sleep with him. Take your time. Don't rush. Talk to him and be honest.
2006-10-11 08:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mumms the word. He doesn't need ot know whats going on down there.
2006-10-11 08:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Pilot 202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie. I don't know if it will hold true or not but because you played you might now have to pay.
2006-10-11 08:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it is none of his business, don't tell him anything
2006-10-11 08:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋