Iv'e been with my fiance for about 10 months and up until now we've never had problems with romance and doin things to keep the fire goin with each other but now we are taking college classes and being in the military we are already busy and here lately she says that it seems that I dont put out the same effort as making her feel sexy are setting the mood being romatic.
What are some tips to help me try to be more romatic with our busy schedule.
2006-10-11 08:22:15 · 9 answers · asked by david f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her little "love notes" once in awhile.. even if it's email or voice message... hide notes in her textbooks, or have a friend deliver to her in class
surprise her w/ flowers, little gifts, ANYTHING. she will definitely appreciate the thoughtfulness and feel special
keep note of things she says she likes, or what she looks and points out in magazines or at the store
take her out to dinner once in awhile, or surprise her w/ cooking dinner at your place
watch a nice romantic movie/dvd together
pretty much, Pay as much attention to her as possible.. even if u are busy, if u take one minute to go out of ur way to give her a kiss or hug, it will go a LONG way and she will always remember, and feel special. good luck!
2006-10-11 08:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in the military u get good discounts on places to vacation all over the world trust me i know. So find out where u think would be good for both of u and take some time off. U can even make it a weekend thing and stay in the states.
2006-10-11 08:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from it all.
Take a trip, even to a neighboring city or town. Look for a Bed & Breakfast or see if some of the nicer hotels have 'weekend specials'. You don't even have to do anything special once you are there, just spend the time together getting to know each other again. My wife and I do this every once in awhile, it is one of the best ways to recharge our relationship.
2006-10-11 08:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wundt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Special dinner with quiet music and candles is an easy and cheap way to be romantic.
A nice walk at night is another one. Preferably by water to a nice town center.
Write a nice love letter explaining what you like about her and list all the things you are looking forward to as you spend your lives together. This should buy you six + months.
If all else fails, full blown hardcore 69 works for my wife.
2006-10-11 08:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by barter256 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to start showing affection more.
Take her out to eat one night for a romantic dinner, don't tell her about it, surprise her.
You can buy her a lingerie to wear to feel even sexier during intercouse.
Role playing can spicen up the sex life.
Give her random kisses and tell her that you couldn't look at her face without kissing it because it's so beautiful.
Cute little comments can make her feel beautiful.
2006-10-11 08:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the little things. Get her a rose for no reason. Leave a note and some bubble bath for her some night. Kiss her really deeply randomly some morning. Etc, etc, etc.
2006-10-11 08:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not do something cheesy like make a note saying do you like me check yes no or maybe. something like that usually will create a laugh then pour on the charm. Sometimes role playing acting like you've never met her.
2006-10-11 08:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he needs to do if it is you who's thinking that the spark has long previous then you ought to ask him what he needs to do then you wont be doing something too intense and you wont be putting too lots tension on him to purpose some thing new.
2016-10-19 05:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 10 months and its going south already ouch! just show her how you feel
2006-10-11 08:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋