I am doing a research paper on corporal punishment parent and I'ld like to know what the Koran says about. Is it allowed by the Koran to discipline our children using corporal punishment ? If so, where is it specified and in what words the Koran allows it ?
2006-10-11 07:17:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jean-Claude S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't know of any such thing in the Qur'an. Qur'an tells the children to be obedient to their parents and ask forgiveness for them.
We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents: In pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth. The carrying of the (child) to his weaning is (a period of) thirty months. At length, when he reaches the age of full strength and attains forty years, he says, "O my Lord! Grant me that I may be grateful for Thy favour which Thou has bestowed upon me, and upon both my parents, and that I may work righteousness such as Thou mayest approve; and be gracious to me in my issue. Truly have I turned to Thee and truly do I bow (to Thee) in Islam." (46:15)
2006-10-11 07:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by mutmainnah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm style of interior the middle on the concern. i don't see something so terrible some swat on the backside, yet i'm very against throwing a newborn over your knee and whipping them with a belt. the way I see it is, a minor swat here and there for a youthful newborn isn't abuse as long because it is not completed out of anger. each and every so often you should ought to furnish them somewhat faucet on the butt to get their interest in a unfavourable difficulty. in spite of if, what I maximum unquestionably am against is hitting childrens with gadgets like belts and paddles, stripping them to hit them on the bare backside, etc. That to me is what sounds extra like "corporal punishment". So i could say no, that should not be allowed. i think of it is disgusting. Forcing an person to eliminate outfits to be lashed diverse situations with an merchandise could probably be seen alongside the strains of torture and "cruel and unusual punishment", and doubtless sexual attack too. Our regulations do nevertheless enable mum and dad to do issues like that, in simple terms as long because it would not bypass away "lasting marks". so as this is in actuality my opinion. i'm against "corporal punishment", yet that doesn't mean that i could be all labored up over a confirm in simple terms swatting their newborn on the butt each and every now and then. I in actuality in simple terms think of it may be unlawful to hit childrens with gadgets and on bare skin.
2016-11-27 21:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quran does not talk to parents about beating children, instead it talks to children directly, it says respect your parents and do not even utter "ah" when they ask you to do something. So Quran's message is a positive message that promotes respect towards parents.
On the other hand there are prophetic traditions which says it is permissible to discipline children and beat them lightly:
Nafi' said, "Ibn 'Umar used to beat his children for mistakes in diction." [ Hadith - Bukhari (#883) and Abu Dawud]
The Prophet said: Order your children to pray at the age of seven. And beat them [lightly] if they do not do so by the age of ten. And separate them in their bedding.
[Hadith - Dawud, Narrated As-Saburah] [Also recorded by Ahmand and al-Hakim. Al-Syuti has give in a notation signifying that it is authentic. Al-Albani has graded it hasan. Al-Albani, Sahih al-Jami, vol. 2, p. 1021.]
The Prophet said, "If somebody fights (or beats somebody) then he should avoid the face." [Hadith - Bukhari 3:734, Narrated Abu Huraira]
I hope that answers your questions.
2006-10-11 07:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by ATK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO AT ALL ..
i dont know any ayah about punishing child.. but what i know that qur'an is against who kill their child in the past and tell ppl that kids is the best and beautiful thing could happened in the life beside the money .
also qura'n ask sons and daughters to respect their parents and never yelling or said bad thing to them and they must obeying them .
2006-10-11 07:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Corporal punishment doesn't mean that you kill them, it means that you might spank them to correct the child. It is not beating or whipping..
2006-10-11 07:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋