i have a crush on this guy that is very cute. but, just know he probably has a girlfriend or married,and he wouldnt be intersted in me.short and round girl
I HATE MYSELVE
2006-10-11 06:30:52 · 7 answers · asked by Me 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also dont know how to look "pretty" i dont know how to apply make up and i find it hard to smile (that isnt creepy looking) iget nervous around him.I feel he rather go out with the blonde sitting behind me because she is what is considered beautiful.
MAYBE I SHOULD WRITE HIM A LETTER CAN YOU GIVE ME IDEAS PLLLEEEASSSEE!!!!
2006-10-11 06:45:14 · update #1
Your breaking my heart. The first thing you need to do is find out if he is seeing someone. If he is you have to let him go, you want him to be happy right, then let him. But if he is not in a relationship guys love girls who are assertive, especially me. Just jump in his life do things he likes to do and make your self available but not willing, if you know what I mean. If you don't just be ready for when he comes around but don't force it. Also looks aren't everything in a relationship. Look at Brad Pitt and Jeniffer A. the most beautiful couple in the world and they still split.
2006-10-11 06:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by kinreep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT hate yourself. My husband of 20 years left me. I am 5 feet tall and weigh 250 pounds. He is good looking 6 feet tall and ten years younger than I am. Before he was all the way out the door I had three men asking me when he was leaving because they wanted to date me. It is not about how you look . It is about how you feel about who you are inside. If you like yourself no matter what you look like others will like you too. Go talk to him you do not have to tell him you like him if he likes you too he will show it. if not you just had a conversation with your crush . i call that a win win situation. By the way i have a new bf now only one month after my husband left. He is hottttttttttt
2006-10-11 13:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by jusme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well after you saying that you hate yourself, maybe you shouldn't worry so much about guys right now but focus more on yourself. Get to a place where you feel good about your body, mind, personality - then men will be finding you. Self confidence is crucial in the dating game.
2006-10-11 13:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with small talk and mention family somehow, if hes married or has a gf he may relate a story about them to you, so you will have an answer to that question, as for the attracted thing, you never know, maybe he likes ladys with curves, I know i do.
2006-10-11 13:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by James d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly! No one should hate themselves ebcause it doesn't matter what you look like, it's the personality within you that is the most important e.g. I wear glasses (For some strange reason: people in my class think i'm smart so they always come up to my for advice but...) I'm not and I suck at maths!!!! I'm useless when it comes to cooking BUT I'm really energetic when it comes to tennis!!!!
Everyone has something bad and good within them! You should tell the guy that u like him when you get to know him better!
2006-10-11 13:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it might work out you have nothing to lose... I thought the same thing too once but i told the person and Im very happy at times that I did it.
2006-10-11 13:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hate yourself, first find out if he is married before you let him know you are interested. and if he isnt just start a conversation with him. what do u have to lose???? Charm him with your personality
2006-10-11 13:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋