My fiance and I moved in with my friend (who is a girl) about 2 weeks ago. She is a single parent with 3 kids. She has a boyfriend, but he leaves for work at 4am every morning. My fiance is a stay at home dad just for a short time. My friend and I work in the same area. I am supposed to be at work at 8:30am and she is supposed to be at work at 8:00am. I leave the house at 7:30am and my fiance said my friend always leaves around 9am for work. So she is late everyday. Also, i get off at 5pm and so does she. But sometimes she is home first. Do you think he may end up cheating on me???? I doubt he has yet. But am I setting them up to cheat? I hope that makes sense. Be Honest!
2006-10-11 06:23:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to trust your partner!!!!! What is the point otherwise?
2006-10-11 06:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by interested_party 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based on trust. If you dont have trust you have nothing. Dont throw up accusations intill you are sure you may only give them the idea. Also I suggest you to move out asap yes it maybe hard at first but you will save your future. Living with other couples only asks for problems. Take my advice hun get out before it gets worse. And stop things before they happen. Crystal
2006-10-11 13:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay obviously you think that all men given the chance will cheat. This is not neccesarily true. Some guys are dedicated to the relationships they commit to and some are complete bastards with ho regard for anything but their own desires. You should talk to your fiance and make him aware of your fears but I doubt you have anything to worry about.
2006-10-11 13:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that house.I'm sorry but 2 separate families under one roof leads to all kinds of problems. Why move in if now you are questioning your friend's loyalty and your fiance's? Way too much stress if you ask me!!!!!!!!!!! Why is she so late for work and why does she seem to get home early????????? I wouldn't like it either. You need to talk to your fiance.
2006-10-11 13:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by misty g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say single women are vulnerable anyways. friends or not. especially if they have children.so yeah, i would say cheating is possible. she must have good qualities if she is your friend. so what is your man to do but become interested in knowing her on a different level since you two are staying with her for the moment. It sounds bad but the truth is this is a vulnerable situation.
2006-10-11 13:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the cat's away, the mouse maybe will play. Do you trust your man? Do you trust your girlfriend? If not, you need to get your own place. Why even bother to be with someone if you ave to ask if the situation can be trusted?
2006-10-11 13:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge possibility. Has your fiance done anything like that before? I would move out and tell my fiance to get a job.
2006-10-11 13:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has he cheated before? Is she the kind of "friend" who would take another girls man?
If any of those questions is answered "yes:" think long and hard about the kind of people you allow into your life. Also think long and hard about your future, and about what it is about your relationship that feeds your doubts.
2006-10-11 13:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by nilam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion i dont think it would be him and you know when you are with someone you have to take the risk will he cheat? if you love him you should trust him, maybe its your friend you need to keep an eye on, hey at least hes tellin you she leaves at 9 maybe thats his cue shes tryin somethin sneaky, maybe ask her why she leaves so late and why she gets home so early just out of curiosity?? good luck hun!!
2006-10-11 13:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by tesnrut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust your man get out of the relationship. why give yourself stress? no you are not setting them up to cheat. is she pretty may be you can get a three way going on.
2006-10-11 13:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem awfully insecure. Either you have to trust that he loves you enough not to cheat, or get out of the relationship.
2006-10-11 13:26:28 · answer #11 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋