I'm 24 now. My mum always calls to remind me "get a boyfriend", "hey, go out with this guy", "how's that guy?still on"... ...
Why am I still single?? My friends say I'm good-looking. I'm not fat, not thin, actually I'm just nice...slim. And I just got my first degree. I'm easy going, friendly, get along well with most people. I have many guys' friends, but why am I still single?? Advice me, plz... Please don't tell me to make the first move, I'm currently having my eyes on two guys at the same time, very troubled also. Anyway, I really don't know what's the reason I'm still single. Plz help...
2006-10-11 06:13:32 · 18 answers · asked by The Wondering Why 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are NOT going to make the first move, then what are you going to do? Apparently nothing but wait. If all that you are going to do is wait & see, then why are you asking for advice om what to do?
If you do nothing, then expect nothing to change.
2006-10-13 10:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush?...... Take your time and be sure your marring the right person, otherwise you'll be in a divorce court and single again.
My daughter is 24 and has a masters degree in education. I keep telling her to work on building her career because if she gets involved with the wrong guy she can kick him to the curb and still financially take care of herself, when she gets involved with a guy I tell her to take it slow and be sure of what she is getting herself into. Personally I feel that right now she is in no position to consider marriage or having children until her career has a solid foundation.
Don't marry just because all your friends are getting married.....wrong reason!!!! Enjoy working on the two guys you have your eyes on and any others that come your way...Love and marriage will find you when it"s right!!!!! LOL
2006-10-11 13:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have your eyes on 2 guys?
If you say you're that easy going, friendly and a nice person you shouldn't have troubles worrying about getting a guy...you should chill out sometime and take your time!
It's never good to rush into a relationship because everyone has someone somewhere out there...you should wait for the right guy instead of rushing into the wrong guy!!!
-> Sometimes you can't just sit there and wait for the right guy to come...so maybe it's best to take action and talk to the guy that u think is your prince!!!
2006-10-11 13:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I have many guys' friends, but why am I still single?? "
thats a quote from your paragraph.......
Its seems like you have no problems getting guys..Cause you wouldn't have so many guy friends if that was the case....
What the problem is is that you are not finding one that interest you in that way... You say you have 2 guys you have your eye on..Honestly if they haven't made a move yet, they are probably afraid to and want you to make the first move becuase you probably don't give a hint that you are interested in them.. If you treat them like friends completely they will not make a move..You have to give a slight hint in some way that you like them..
Being single is not your issue, having your choice of guys is not your issue..your issue is choosing WHO you want a relationship..becuase obvioulsy you have your options open... :)
2006-10-11 13:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by leog7one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that maybe you were not ready to get a boyfriend yet with getting your degree and all? A boyfriend would have been a distraction to you meeting your goals. But sometimes you do have to make the first move. It's a great confidence builder! Good Luck Girl!!!!
2006-10-11 13:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, YOU'RE ONLY 24--DON'T PANIC--THERE'S STILL TIME!!! YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE EASY GOING, FRIENDLY, ETC., BUT WHEN YOU GO OUT, DO YOU "LOOK" LIKE YOU'RE TRYING TO FIND A HUSBAND? I MEAN, SOMETIMES WE GIVE OFF A VIBE -- IT LOOKS KINDA LIKE DESPERATION -- AND WE DON'T EVEN REALIZE IT.
I USED TO WONDER THE SAME THING MYSELF, BUT I SWEAR THAT THE MINUTE I FOUND PEACE WITHIN MYSELF BEING SINGLE....AND QUIT WONDERING IF I WOULD EVER GET MARRIED....I MET MY HUSBAND.
SO, WITH THAT BEING SAID, JUST RELAX. IT WILL COME. AND REMEMBER, THE LONGER IT TAKES, THE MORE YOU'LL APPRECIATE IT WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN!!!
2006-10-11 13:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a quiet place and think which boy to go for... I dun think u wan both at the same time right? Just can't decide which to go for. Well, opportunity lies ahead now... if u dun grab it, u may regret in future... so still as usual, pick up the courage n make the 1st move...
2006-10-11 23:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that no doubt you are good-looking, you need to do some personal grooming to make yourself more "attractive". Go for a good hair-do, put on make-up, buy some nice outfits. Socialise more, go for group outings, etc. All the best to you.
2006-10-11 23:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mom probably has a lot to do with it. Just take your time and you will know when you meet the right person.
2006-10-11 13:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same question. Perhaps we are just to picky. Who knows perhaps one day I will meet you. Good luck
2006-10-11 13:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by davidcool756 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋