her waist on her wedding day?
2006-10-11 06:01:26 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 in Travel ➔ Europe (Continental) ➔ Turkey
Turkish wedding
2006-10-11 06:07:40 · update #1
red shash meant the bride is a virgin in turkish wedding
2006-10-11 06:09:51 · update #2
I read your other questions. You're obsessed with this red sash. It's not a big deal man. Calm down. It's just a tradition, some follow some don't.
2006-10-11 07:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It is none of the wedding guest's business if the bride has been raped, so if the red sash is a sign of being raped, don't wear it. If it is a sign of virginity, then wear it. Although "technically" the physical body is not virgin, the bride still is because she was violated and has not willingly given her virginity away. The basis of marriage is love, not regulations. Love protects the bride from disrespect in the eyes of the wedding guests.
2006-10-11 13:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by born on Thursday 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a difficult question to answer but you know the majority of the time Virginity is not only referred to your body but to your mind as well. I was almost raped too, and it was difficult for me to understand this but, what matters is what you have on your heart and mind. The person you marry should accept you just the way you are no matter what. He is the only one who has to know what happened to you, so I would say don't use the red string around cause that is part of your past already.
2006-10-11 13:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The red sash is only a tradition, virgin or not virgin no matter. In Turkish tradition, brothers tie it up to sisters. Also I tied up a red sash to my sister in her wedding and I didnt ask her being a virgin or not to tie a red sash! Why do u interest in this subject too much?
I m afraid your next question will be: "I m raped, can I wear red sash?"
I hope not, good luck...
2006-10-12 05:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by HOTTürk 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she is no longer a virgin. And no she doesn't need to wear a red sash or string around her waist on her wedding dayâ¥
2006-10-11 13:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For going through such a horrific ordeal I would hate to think she would want to tie a red ribbon around her waist on her wedding day and remind herself of it. I think wearing all white would be appropriate. I'm a firm believer that you truly lose your virginity when you give it to someone completly and willingly. This is definately a situation where she can call a "do-over".
2006-10-11 13:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by jill_valentine_otaku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cantona 7 your my man ROTFLMAO!! hahahaah well said.!!
Man its a tradition of the hmm Turkish traditional side. You don't ask the woman r u a virgin or not , lol, its symbolic. Turkish weddings are fun tho I love em.
But in your case I don't think u r a virgin anymore. Sorry. Hope you ain't askin cause u ve experienced it.
2006-10-13 03:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Blue_Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she is still a virgin. You lose your true virginity by allowing yourself to particiapte sexual with a partner. A rape victim does not have this option. I feel that it is a heart thing. People regularly recommit their self to virginity even though they are not. People make mistakes...Rape victims do not have get to choose; they are still virgins. Forget the red sash.
2006-10-11 13:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for chaste young girls that fall victim to rape, they are no longer considered virgins. I would hope and pray that the man that marrys her takes into consideration that she did try to save herself for marriage and that he would love her unconditionally regardless of the sash or string.
2006-10-11 13:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never heard of the red shash or red string.
but technically she is not a virgin anymore but in conversational speak, she is a virgin.
2006-10-11 13:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋