does she have the right?

Question

my friends mom walks around the house in the buff, even if im there. shes hot but its still wierd, i asked her about it and she said its her house she can do what she wants. she does everything in the buff, tanning, cleaning, cooking, watching tv, getting mail, i have never seen her dressed, ever. shes been divorced for 2 years, that might be why, what should i do

Answer 1

I hope that you have talked with your friend about your feelings on this subject. If he has tried to do something about it and nothing has worked, I doubt you will be able to make a difference. One of your writters wrote that it's against the law. It is called lewdness. This is partly true, however if you are in the privacy of your own home it is not against the law! Go out get the mail O.K this is lewdness and that is against the law. Enough of that. I think your better judgement tells you what alot of us have confirmed to you. The truth is you already think she is hot. Now it's up to you not to put yourself in a position to be tempted! You know yourself better than anyone thats why I can only encourage you to do the right thing no matter how hard it may be! :)

Answer 2

Sounds like she's trying too hard to get attention. There is probably a confidence issue she is trying to over come. Even though she divorced two years ago the problems from that incident may still be influencing her "buff" expression around her house. Or it could just be really hot in her house.
I would refrain from going over there in the future.

Answer 3

If it bothers you do not go. she has a point, it is her house. You cannot change her. She obviously has her mind set up. Walking around naked is a lifestyle. She probably always did that. It is weird. Invite your friend over to your house instead and explain to him why. Chances are he's had the converstation with his mom before and perhaps with enough persuasion from her disgruntled son, she will change her mind and decide to grow up and join the millenium. I think she is making it hard for her son to bring friends home. I think it is hurting her son more than anything. I think it is selfish. But it doesn't matter what I think. It only matters what you are going to do about it. So what are you going to do?

Answer 4

In reality she is right it is her house and she can do as she wishes. Though it is sickening at any age you might be you and your friend shouldnt be seeing his mother in the nude. Thats is whats sick. But if I were you I would just tell your friend you dont feel comfortable as i am sure you will find out neither is he. But just stay away. I dont know if she needs counseling but maybe it is due to the devorce it can make people very strange.

Answer 5

She walks around like that in front of her son (I am assuming that your friend is a guy)???? I think I would have the friend come over to my house. Stay away if it makes you uncomfortable and it should make you uncomfortable. What would you do if she came on to you?? What would your friend do if she came on to you?? She must really think she is all that.

Answer 6

It's actually illegal in most states for those over a particurlar age to display sexual organs to a minor. Call CPS and report her, that's the best advice I can give. It IS her house, but she CANNOT do whatever she pleases.

Answer 7

Eewww....I hope that you are 18 or over because that woman is off the chains!!! That could be a misdemeanor in most states. But if it makes you feel ucomfortable, stop going over there. Unless you like it...you little perve. :)

Answer 8

I think she is practices exhibitionism which is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to other people. In exhibitionism the individual shows a tendency to an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually-inspired behavior to captivate the attention of others in a display of a body part, or parts, that would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.
I think that in your case it is exhibitionist on the edge of uncontrolled obsession. She need to learn how to control her urges.

Answer 9

She has the "right" but it's very strange. I assume that she struts around naked in front of her child too. That's really strange. If it makes you uncomftorable, I think all you can do is not go over there anymore. Depending on how old your friend is you might want to call DSS, I think that's innapropriate to do in front of your children.

Answer 10

Ask her to have some respect for others. It may be her house but does she lack common sense?Not all people a comfortable with nakedness. Just ask her to cover up, use some modesty.