I am so confused right now both with my friend and the new guy I met. She likes him, me and him hooked up but she spent the night at his house. They both claim they were just talking but she slept in his bed! I dont' know who to forgive... I have not spoken to either of them since I found out, but they both have been calling what should I do?
2006-10-11 05:50:54 · 16 answers · asked by maybeline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't speak to either.
First of all, a girl like that is claiming to be your friend, who the F.U.C.K. needs enemies with that Skank. She should have never been at his house by her self in the beginning. She has no business been there. Another thing is, why did she sleep in his bed with him and claims nothing happen. That Is B.U.L.L.S.H.I.T
She is a girl you can't trust, and doesn't give her girls respect as well as she doesn't for herself. And as for him, he is a man hoe. She could have called you and told you, or taken her A.S.S. home.
No excuses, make them suffer and don't speak to them. Who needs negative people around them anyways.
2006-10-11 05:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend if she would do something like that in the first place and he's no good for letting her come over anyways.So you should anwer the phone and let them both know how you feel.
2006-10-11 12:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by babytwin22000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you and he have a commitment? If not he is free to sleep with whomever he wants and so is your friend. Women always think that as soon as we have sex with them that we are not going to sleep with anyone else. There is such a thing as casual sex. Maybe he likes you, maybe he likes your friend, or maybe he is just having fun.
2006-10-11 12:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as well as u shouldnt talk to either of them. she broke rule number 2 of the best friend code...thou shalt not go afta any man thy friend has an interest in
2006-10-11 12:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time u meet a guy don't tell her anything. don't b mad @ her. i don't know how ya'll friendship is. i would just watch what i tell her. as 4 the guy, drop him. u don't even know whether he slept with her or not. he's a dogg
2006-10-11 12:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both how you feel. let them know that you deserve to know the truth, no matter how bad it may be.
follow your heart, if your gut says give them a 2nd chance, go for it. if your gut says don't trust them again, then don't.
do what you feel is right for you.
2006-10-11 12:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you reall y do like him, you should have done something about it ask him out. He is available so you shouldnt get mad at your friend because she likes him too. Talk to them.
2006-10-11 12:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by chanlen2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, true friends/lovers and trust go hand in hand, no ifs ands or buts and they are both butts.
2006-10-11 13:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knew u liked him then u need 2 find a new friend and a new guy which should be fun!
2006-10-11 13:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be wrong about your summation of the situation. Why not see them and one on one talk with them about what you feel.
2006-10-11 12:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋