everytime I see him my head immediately goes down and I can't stop myself from crying.
at my school I have one lesson a week which he is in, and it's first thing tommorrow. I don't know what I'm going to do.
i can't cry over it in my lesson, so how can I stop myself? he sits opposite me and the teacher has this strict thing about nobody swapping places, so i can't trade or i'll just get moved back.
most people in another one of my lessons know i'm upset but don't know why and they will be watching me for more signs tommorrow as they kind of saw me hiding crying and they are just being nosy, i know they just want more gossip coz thats the kind of girls they are
how the hell am i going to cope?
and don't even mention telling a teacher etc. coz theres no way on this planet i am telling any of my teachers this.
2006-10-11 05:47:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't normally encourage this, but pull a sicky tomorrow, and stay at home. Do not however, stay in bed getting all depressed about it. Instead, realise that this will all pass. Recognise that there is someone funnier, kinder, better looking, and better suited to you out there. I guarantee it.
2006-10-11 05:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. First, as you did not state why you broke up, I will assume it was because of him, because you seem to have took it really hard. Think for a moment about how much its his fault, think how wrong he was for you, and that's why you split up. You can do better, just remember that.
Also, first thing tomorrow get together with a few friends and start up a REALLY vicious rumour about him (preferably something private) and spread it around, especially to people in that class. Never let him know how much it hurts, and especially don't tell teachers.
If none of this works you could block out all thoughts on the matter, try thinking of something completely different, whether is friends, family or something completely different like sandwiches. This last option is definitely only temporary, bottling up your feelings is wrong and dangerous in the long run, look back on the situation and if I can help at all just send me a message.
2006-10-11 06:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by porta_custos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all the cliches are true - time heals and all that. However, you have until tommorrow, so let's strategise.
1) He broke your heart, so he's clearly not that great, or he would not have done it. Bear this in mind. He's not that great...
2) Think of something stupid/ unpleasant you have witnessed him do. Keep thinking about it and how dumb/ unpleasant he is. If there's more than one thing - wwrite a list!
3) Important one this... write a list of attributes for Brad Pitt, or some other famous type you fancy, on one side of a piece of paper. Write your ex boyfriend's name on the other side and truly compare him in the looks, money, etc. departments that he doesn't have a hell in chance of looking good in against Brad Pitt (or whoever) Keep this list and read it in class.
4) And we're going back to number one a bit here - he broke your heart, are you going to let him have the satisfaction of seeing you upset over it? It's not like he's perfect, is it - I mean you've got written evidence of his stupidity, the fact he's not that great compared to film/ pop stars and most importantly, he obviously wasn't good enough for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-11 06:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are unfortunately one of the experiences we all go through to get to the young adult stage of life. It won't be your last either. Although I think these can be the harshest of the experiences. I can tell you it will pass in time all things do. You have choices here one of which is do you want to be miserable and stay stuck in this spot or do you want to move on and quit crying. It is a grieving process and how long it takes is up to the individual. Something like this is real but only to you because no one else can feel your feelings. Good luck
2006-10-11 06:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Alice G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hope u well by reading your question i was thinking about those chicks just hatched out of egg and all they do cry and cry but u know wot that crying makes them stronger as they grow up so u not just crying u getting rid of your anger inside u we all go thro these times and these times wot gives us more strength and makes us stronger person by telly teachers or any one else not gonna make much diff its u only u who gonna make it happend so like he is sitting front of u laughing enjoying u should do the same show him u r strong person and it does not effact u any way that way u will find better person then him and he will feel asham wot he done to u so my dear go to sleep tonite and in the morning take deep breath and just be your self when u go out show every one u r much stronger then u r just think this is a exam for u and u have to pass this we only here in this world for short while so why not make the most of it
and have fun while u can
x x
2006-10-11 06:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by fizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through heart ache at some point in their lives. You will get over it though. Try and take your mind off him by seeing friends and chatting about other things. Dont worry about people that are not your friends gossiping. They will have something else to gossip about soon. Just ignore them. When your in class just try and concentrate on your school work and pretend he isnt there.
2006-10-11 05:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by kezza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong Amie....
This is your first Heartbreak so it'll feel like the bottom has dropped out of Your World....
BUT...
Someone better WILL come along when the time is right and U probably won't even remember this guy....
Tomorrow morning just take a deep breath, and look him in the eye and know, deep in your Heart that You are better and stronger than he is and that your next boyfriend WILL be so much better than this Guy.....
Take care Amie.....
I'm rooting for U girl...
Marty x
2006-10-11 05:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by martythepigpilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop cryin
hold ur head up
dont ever let a man see u cry ova him
act like u r fine when in public so he dont know he has hurt u
then look ova why u broke up
find where it wasnt ur fault and get ready to move forward
it isnt the end of the world and honey life is too short to cry ova one guy trust me (u may think its hard now but u wont once u get older)
2006-10-11 05:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not going to cope well over night with heartache. be dropped off at school, pretend you're going in, then b4 you see any one you know, get the hell out of there, and go down the shopping centre and hang out with the older kids. they will make you laugh and forget about things. OR..
go into that class, pretend everything is fine with yr friends,it hasn't affected you, no, in fact its made you much stronger. give a half fake smile to ex boyf, then b4 teacher comes in, pass a note to him, explaining that you're a) hurt b) reluctant to be friends and c) you're friends all think he's un-cool. then stare at him as much as possible, focusing the malevolence and displeasure of knowing him into the back of his head. save the hate until break-time, where you are free to pour orange juice on his head, then laugh in his face. do this to him in front of his friends, not yours, they will laugh more, and you will score one of his mates as they will think you're hard and cool. then dump him in retaliation. problem solved- for life!
2006-10-11 06:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by al l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋