I know he is my ex, and I should not care, but he is i touch with me even day 1 from our break-up. I am not over yet. I feel so pathetic and sad, but the thought makes me go so insane. Help me.
2006-10-11 05:42:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry babe, it is normal feeling especially after breaking up. Just keep your mind occupied, don't think about it. Good luck.
2006-10-11 05:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have all felt like that one time in our lives. 1st you need to stop communicating, easier said than done BUT!! thats the first major step. Time heals.
Hang out with friends, family, keep as busy as possible if you are just sitting around then you will think about it more.
Trust me he is not the only guy on the planet you will find someone else, I am sure it hurts we wouldn't be human if it didn't not but DONT make it worse by still talking to him, dont call him, if he calls dont return the calls, stay busy.
Rebounds are ok, but not the best solution sometimes you can walk into something thats worse.
No matter what anybody tells you, you are going to do what you want anyways, but remember to ask yourself a questions. Is this healthy for me and am i happy ?
2006-10-11 12:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by pauliesoxin04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, like you say, he is already your ex. question is, why is your relationship draggin on like this even after you guys have broken up?
from what you say above, i assume you still have feelings for him since you will sometimes feel a tinge of jealousy and all. Why not you try to talk to him and see if your relationship can be rekindled. if it can be done, why not do it and make the relationship work this time?
however, if this relationship is really going no where and he only intends to remain as 'just a friend', its about time you let go and slowly move on. it will be hard for sure, but definitely somewhere down the road you will find someone better and who will treasure you more etc.
do get supprt from family and friends, engage urself in more activities so that you may keep your mind off things like this. Keep urself busy, it works wonders to prevent you from thinking the worse of things.
Slowly, but surely, u'll definitely move on. :)
2006-10-11 12:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by .:Lyd:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there
This is completely normal what you are feeling.
You must have been with him for quite some time. It is normal to feel this way, even though its not very healthy. It is good that you guys are keeping in-touch, even thought you are not together you at least can share memories when you were and the good times (or bad times).
I suggest you move on, sure its fine to think about it, but don't stress too much on it, it will only make you sadder, you need to accept that he is not yours anymore and go out and look for someone for yourself :)
Let him live his life and you live yours!
Goodluck!
2006-10-11 12:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a truck that I really like but then I decided to get a new car and sold the truck. I don't think about who is driving my truck now, but I remember all the fun I had with it. The point is you and your ex broke up for a reason and you are better off now. Who he is with now doesn't matter, just remember the fun you had with him and find someone new.
2006-10-11 12:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go cold turkey. Get rid of his number and all the little momentos you have of him. This might sound harsh, but have some self respect. If he wanted you; he would be with you. You are worth more than that. Its not easy but start telling yourself that you are worth more, and that you are over him and act like you are worth more and act like you are over him. Eventually, you will be. Your expressed behavior dictates your attitude, not the other way around. Life goes on sugar, he did! And you will too. Good luck and hang in there. This too shall pass.
2006-10-11 12:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Obsidian butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 4 me it would be hard 4 me to b friends with my ex depending on how we broke up. i know that feeling. u still care for him, and it makes u sick 2 your stomach to think about what he could be doing.my advice-----cut down your communication with him.times heals... the more u talk to him the harder it will be. i'm not saying don't talk 2 him---just cut your conversations short or better yet don't talk 2 him at all if you can help it. take care
2006-10-11 12:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it, move on with your life. I hated my x for moving on with his life so I moved on with mine and got over it. I never would accept her as being his girlfriend, but I accepted that he was sleeping with her. When I moved on that bothered him even more than it bothered me and we could talk about things again. Now we are back together and everything is great!
2006-10-11 12:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to buzz off........having a foot in another womans bed, while dangling the other one near your bed, means he's having a good ol time eating her cake, while hovering around you to see if he can pinch a few bites out of your one as well.......your'e not deserving of treatment like that.......tell him not to contact you anymore, then take a bit of time out to do a bit of grieving, then slowly and steadily look ahead to starting a new chapter in your life...... it will be hard, and it will be slow, but you will be travelling a road that many of us have already successfully been down.....take the road that we did, and you can make it to......lots a luck, youll make it.
2006-10-11 13:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying - we all know that no women want to have sex with anybody, ever...so you were lucky enough for him to find some other idiot who will do all the stuff you never wanted to do in the first place...
2006-10-11 12:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Glockmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋