I have known this woman for about two months now and dating here and there and I am wondering when the right time is to bring up dating exclusively ...or if I am suppose to wait for her to bring it up? I am going out with her tonight and I am thinking of bringing up the subject but not sure if I should or not.
Do I mention its not anymore pressure then what we have been doing as far as time together etc...but just to take that next step I guess...or would that not be brought up
2006-10-11 05:39:08 · 9 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely BEFORE you have sex.
2006-10-11 05:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest mentioning that you are a one woman at a time guy. While you are seeing each other, you won't see anyone else. Phrase it as a "I just wanted you to know" type of thing to take the pressure off. Tell her what YOU are prepared to do. If she makes no mention of doing the same, move on to another subject and accept that she might not be ready for exclusivity.
2006-10-11 05:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when the man asks it gives the woman a lot of security that her man is only into her. You should ask her if you feel the moment is right. Say something like "I really enjoy my time with you and I really think a future with you looks promising, I'm not trying to scare you but I would like to date you only" and go from there, be sincere, see how she reacts and if she is agreeable then you are set. I hope you are more eloquent than I am. Good luck:)
2006-10-11 05:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go ahead and ask her now. If you have been seeing each other for two months that is a reasonable amount of time to know if she wants to be with you. Good Luck!
2006-10-11 05:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have decoded she is the one u want then u have to just come out and let her know...ask her if u r the only 1 she wants to date exclusively b/c that is what ur looking for... she's either gonna say yah or nay and either way u know where ur going and whether or not ur time is being wasted or well invested....
2006-10-11 05:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just casually say that you really enjoy her company and that you arent seeing or planning on seeing other women at the moment, and just wanted to know how she felt about it.
never hurts to just ask!
but dont question her and dont push it if you see some resistance
2006-10-11 05:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her to date exclusively, if she's not ready than wait for her to bring it up again.GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-11 05:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much pressure, you dont sound like you talk everyday or date quite often
2006-10-11 05:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her: "How would you feel if ......"
2006-10-11 05:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋