this guy does the following things:
-talks about me to family
-shows me off to co-workers
holds my hand
-holds doors open
-talks about how much he likes me and thinks we might have something
-tells me I make him smile and make his future look better
-has been seeing me for over a month and has not made a move but tells me he would love to kiss me when I am ready
You think he wants a relationship or is he just trying to get sex?
2006-10-11 05:38:10 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everything about this guy suggests marriage material, except the last sentence about kissing you when you're ready. sounds dubious. i tink you gotta judge him for urself, cause ultimately he's your friend and no one here will knoe him any better than you do.
here's what, you could prolly try to talk to him about the same things like how much he means to you etc and show him off to family and friends. Check his reaction. If he's all cool about all these, i would think tht he's a keeper because committment phobics do not react well to this treatment.
if he's only after sex, then all the meeting of parents and committment conversations shall show u his true colours.
all the best :)
2006-10-11 05:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by .:Lyd:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to have sex....Keep makin' him wait and see what happens. If he's still there after about 2 months give it a shot. He might just be a guy full of games like i used to be. I had 3 girlfriends and 2 pending sex. I waited 7 months for one of them...& it wasn't even worth it. I was angry. But anywho, you never know how good someones game is. So just be careful..You should know if someone really gives a damn bout u or not. Analyze don't just listen to he says...figure it out for yourself. thank you come again.
2006-10-11 05:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look a guy can get sex any place they do not hang around for over a month to just lai a girl. They stay till they can get some and leave or they see that they cant and give up he wants to be with you honey listen to me i know
2006-10-11 05:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he is serious,but there are some good pretenders out in this would maybe you should take a chance after all there are still some honest men out there just looking for the right person to woman to love.
2006-10-11 05:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he asked you about sex.If he already has then I guess that's he wants from you.
I suggest, the next time or whenever he asks you for sex, just tell him that you will not have sex before marriage and see how he reacts. It will give you a fair indication about whether he is really likes you or not.
If he doesn't force you for sex then I can bet you that he loves you.
2006-10-11 05:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just after sex. Start giving it up and I'll give it about a month before you're opening your own doors and he's not calling you as much.
2006-10-11 05:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds serious. If he STILL hasn't kissed you he's probably really shy. Too shy to ask for sex!
Do you like HIM the way he likes you? If you do, you might need to show it a bit more so he can muster up the guts to finally kiss you!
2006-10-11 05:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is trying very hard to have some sort of a relationship with you.Give him a chance and see.If he is that considerate the sex could be real good.
2006-10-11 05:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is looking for a relationship but if I am wrong and he just wants sex then he is really going over board for it
2006-10-11 05:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants a relationship, but wants to take it really slow... so just go with the flow n after a while I’m sure he's gone come out n tell u abt his true feelings..just wait until then...
2006-10-11 05:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by ArabianNite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋