my girlfriend and i have a pretty good sex life already and i was wondering if their was anything else i could do to please her. for example what kind of motion should i use during sex
2006-10-11 05:37:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone has different likes...ask her.
2006-10-11 05:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her what she wants. She will be blown away. Even during sex just stop and ask her how she would like it done. Ask her if there is anything she would like to try. I know with my husband the things I like the most he avoids because it gets him off faster. But I don't care all that much it feels great and I don't care if he gets off fast. I'd rather have a few minutes of great sex than an hour of something that feels just ok. But the key really is to just ask her what feels good. And pay attention to what she is doing. Watch her face. You will be able to tell when you hit a good spot and then ask her how fast or how hard she wants it. She will be happy to know that you are concerned about what feels good for her. And I commend you on caring. A lot of guys don't care.
2006-10-11 05:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best position for the female during sex is from behind or 'doggy style'. The reason for this is that in this position the vagina is able to open to its fullest so that allows for deeper penetration; therefore the female gets more enjoyment from the sexual act. To maximize the position the female can also alternately contract and relax her vaginal muscles which makes the male feel as though his penis is being massaged during sex. After penetration in any position try rubbing her clitoris gently, this can help her to climax during sex. If you're up to some exploration yourself, have her gently finger your anus during oral sex, for most males this is where the g-spot is located and can make your orgasms more memorable.
2006-10-11 05:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by juicy_green_pears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the best way to figure out what she prefers, and what to stay away from... So don't be shy; if you already have good sex together, you shouldn't be fearful of asking her if there's anything "extra" you can give her! In my case, I was happy when my hubby came home with a vibrator as a gift for me.... But that's just me!
2006-10-11 05:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what type of personality she has.
Like say, if she is a loving, and gentle type of human being, just go slow with her. Be emotional with her and make her feel like she is truly loved during the act, and not just having sex. Kiss her a lot, really deeply and emotionally. This really deepens the meaning of it all and makes it feel much more emotional, not to mention a little bit overwhelming, but it just makes it feel a lot more calming and makes the woman feel truly loved.
2006-10-11 05:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by jennnnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about communication. Making sure the other person feels good. We can't tell you what kind of motion is going to feel good to your girlfriend.
2006-10-11 05:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what else you could do for her that she wants. The best kind of sex life is when you can talk to your partner about what they want and what you want also.
2006-10-11 05:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop in a porno and just ask her how she likes what they are doing, or if you prefer watch it urself, and perform some actions on her, touch her and ask her if she'd like you to go harder or softer, whisper this in her ear, and she might just take your hand and guide you the way she likes it done! talk to her seductively!! Women like that!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-11 05:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your imagation
2006-10-11 05:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some that will allow her to control you. See the Karma Sutra hand book.
2006-10-11 05:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her.if you don't want to ask her try different moves and see if she responds in a positive way.make suggestions to her.she might be waiting on you to initiate something new so she won't appear to be the kinky one.EXPERIMENT.
2006-10-11 05:44:10 · answer #11 · answered by tamlala6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋