I started college a month and a half ago and on the second day i feel like i fell in love with a girl named Pamela. I've finally had enough courage 2 go and sit close 2 her although not next 2 her. I talk 2 her sumtimes and i say hi also but she seems 2 have a closer relationship with another guy who happens 2 sit next 2 her and when i asked him about it the other day(at the same time told him i liked her) he said that there just friends and he would keep it in mind. That same day we had a test and while "keeping it in mind" he made me sit next 2 her but it seemed awkward. how do i just surpass that stage and be close enough 2 her so that it wont seem that awkward 4 the both of us?
2006-10-11 05:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women sense fear. Be confident or don't try it until you can.
2006-10-11 05:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard. Relax and smile when you see her. Just keep planning "unexpected meetings" and she'll see that you are interested. Ask her friend what interests Pamela and in passing , you might start a conversation about one of them. People love to talk about what interests them.
You seem like a thoughtful person and most women react to those types of men. Women like men who are thoughtful and have a good sense of humor. I know I feel more connected to a man who makes me laugh, without stooping to silly pranks.
Good luck. Hope you get her.
2006-10-11 05:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by lothespiritalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're saying you like her. ok? So what in the international could take place in case you at the instant are not sitting next to her, possible see her. Watch her and watch her watchin you. This jogs my memory of my own college days whilst i became dealing with comparable concern. whether it did not materialise, i used to reveal screen it tho' from a distance. attempt out this form and that's not embarrassing or awkward. yet tell me is the hearth on the different part besides? attempt speakin out your emotions in the direction of Pamela and the different guy will possibly not prevail. stable success!
2016-10-16 02:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you don't love her...you have a crush on her.
Next....if you want to have something more with her stop bringing other people into it.
The next time you're leaving class together say hi and invite her for a cup of coffee.
And slow down...you're getting way ahead of yourself....she may not like you.
2006-10-11 05:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just lighten up, take a lesson from the other guy sitting next to her. Plus she probably already knows that you like her. Just be who your are as if you were sitting next to any female we all don't bite.
2006-10-11 05:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no nice way to say it "Nut up" there is no easy way. The only thing you can do is get over it ask her out whatever and in time it gets easier.
2006-10-11 05:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by holendahead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her
be silly or something
just dont sit there and be like uhhh shes hot
just keep your wits about you and be yourself talk to her
and then once you become friends then see if she wants to hang out or get lunch sometime or something
=)
2006-10-11 05:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by ggggggabe! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋