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My BF likes to have sex in "water" type places shower, whirlpool, swimming pool, jacuzzi etc. These are all at our home and they are enclsed and private area's. Problem is I don't like it, it doesn't feel normal, is even a lttle uncomfortable. There doesn't seem to be enough natural body fluids even though we are "in" water. Do you know what I mean? I don't want to be too graphic. I have talked to him about it and he is very understanding... not a problem he always wants me to be comfortable. However, I am the kinda girl that never say's no to her man. I want to do what pleases him. Are there any suggestion as to what I can do to make the whole water thing better for me?
2006-10-11 05:22:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
omg... THAT SOUNDS JUST LIKE ME. It's not that I don't like it? Its just different. I get so caught up in the fact that it is different that I lose concentration on the actually act....
2006-10-11 05:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even though water is liquid it is not helping the lubrication. It is actually making it worse. I know you want to please your guy but having sex in pools and jacuzzis and such are very unhealthy. They could lead to infections since the water is being pushed up into you. As of any ways you could make it better, the only thing I can think of is to have him touch you while your doing it. Maybe that would take your mind of the irritation.
2006-10-11 05:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by hlpme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, check to make sure the chlorine levels are optimal in your pool. Second, Adam & Eve sells a silicone based lubricant meant for use in the the water. Third but most important, if you're not comfortable doing something, open your mouth and tell him. If you're not enjoying it, it decreases things for him too.
2006-10-11 09:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by seeme1995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really... water washes away the natural lubrication that is needed for sex. additionally its impossible to get pure clean water so while things are happening.. keep in mind that with every stroke some water is getting in there and can lead to some infections.
My advice... play in the water and then have fun outside of it right next to it and then jump in again when you are done!
2006-10-11 05:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may need the water for him to feel it's tighter . Discuss it maybe you can come up with other options .
This is common , not a put down for anyone .
Good Luck sweetie !
2006-10-11 05:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean...it makes things feel all rubbery and weird. maybe you should try some kind of lube. some get "lubier" in water.
2006-10-11 05:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋