What do I do to be able to let her know how I feel?

Question

I sit next to this girl who increasingly like the more I talk to her. But, she does not know I like her (as far as I know.)
I haven't had much experiance with girls, but we get along very well, I make her laugh and we joke around and have nice conversations. Jokingly, my mate said to us: you two should go out. She said: no, we are just friends, but I don't know wether that was just pressure or shyness.
I want her to know I like her but I don't want to make it extremely obvious I like her because I am still at school and I can't be bothered with everyong coming up to me saying: Do you fancy so an and so...
I also don't want to ask her upfront because I have never done that before and me and nerves are not best friends, also if I did and she said no, that would also go around and this time it would be: Did you get rejected by so and so...

Can anyone give me some help or useful hints, also please do not say: Just ask her, because I really doubt I could do that.

Thank you.

By the way, I am 15.

Answer 1

one great easy way is ask her if she wants to hang out

and if she likes you things will fall into place and you will have to ask her

but don't worry aobut that yet

=)

Answer 2

How cute! I remember when I was 15 and had a crush! I understand about the nerves getting the best of you. If you like the girl that much, who cares what anyone else says or thinks. If they do say you fancy so and so or if she does reject you and they say you were rejected by so and so do you really care? Who are they to judge you? Half of them that say it probably don't have a better half anyway. People are haters!! You can always find out what the girl likes and do it or get it. I'm not saying buy the girl a diamond watch, just something small and sentimental. Women like that! Or get her a card, just something friendly, not anything deep...yet!! Or talk to her bestfriend. The bestfriend always knows everything about the person including who she likes and the bestfriend will go back and tell her, that way, if she does like you back, she'll start acting on it, if not, her bestfriend will tell you and you can go from there.

Answer 3

Does she knows you are still single (100% no girl-friend)?

Well, if you don't go tell your buddies you express your feeling to this girl, I don't think your buddies will come bothering you with "Do you fancy so and so...".

Anyway, which type of guy are you? Slow? Or, Fast?

Slow, you better observe and consider the consequences in case you get rejected or both get very embarrass. But sometimes think too much make you miss the good chance, man!

Fast, don't bother whether anyone will say anything about you and so and so.... Just, action!

Well, if I'm that girl, I prefer you take actions, though the girl mentioned "we are just friends". Silly me, because I wish the guy sitting next to me will express his feelings to me... I caught him looking at me many times, hahaa

Answer 4

If I were you I would definately try to find something that you could do with her, like go study if you have the same classes or somehting. It would give you the perfect opportunity to ask her to somewhere public, like to a movie or to meet up some afternoon and go for a day at a amusement park or something. Until you get up the nerve or find out where to go continue the "study dates". It'll help you both in school and since you already get along, it won't be weird. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Lord I remember when I was six teen and this guy I liked was 15. He was the love of my life. I threw out all kind sof hints to him and for 3 months her never responded. i just couldnt understand why he didnt like me. Then one day I ran into him in a store , and I was at the back at a pool table..he came up and sat next to me..I said , Hey what are you doing here? I was trying to act like I didnt care but inside I was going crazy. He didnt say any thing. So I thought , OK? So he was just staring at me and so I thought , what the heck at stared right back at him. Next thing I know he leans in so fast for a kiss so powerful with feelings that I will never forget it till this day.It was about a minute long. All I could do is say , wow. He said , Yeah. It was the best kiss ever. All of our kisses were like that. We went out for a year after that.

The moral of my story is ...you never know what is going on in the other persons head. You just got to be bold and go for what you want. If she rejects you , let it go, if she wants you , she will come to you. But dont hide your feelings.

Answer 6

I remember when I had probs like you did when I was 15. Asking was deff. out of the question it seemed really embarassing and your right being afraid of rejection is a hard one. I think what you should do is write a note to her its easier to write things then it is to say them. Write a note to her telling her how you do feel and let her know that you care about her and how much she could mean to you. This is probably the easiest way to let her know because if you dont let her know sooner or later it could be to late and you could find yourself seeing her with someone else and no one ever wants that. Dont give up go for it she could be the love of your life for all you know.

Answer 7

age does'nt matter. maturity counts. if you make her feel comfortable ask her in a polite manner upfront. girls like those who are bold. spineless creatures are not their choice.

or give her a card expressing your feelings along with a box of choclates. but stay there & let her read the card. try to grasp a few quotes(love) which you can speak before her. or if possible a poem. this should turn her on. dress modestly & don't be too simple or too fashionable. put a light fragrance, prefferably musk. & don't forget to shave.

Answer 8

well, anything too upfront will risk breking the friendship, if she's not interested in you as you are.what you can do, is spend time with her, make her feel good around you.very good and close friendships end up as relationships.treat her as a good friend, trust her, but not excessively, and make her trust you.make her feel comfortable and relaxed around you, talk to her, organise a picninc or something with more people, spend time with her... :) make her like you.for short. :) good luck

Answer 9

compliment her a lot and dont forget to make eye contact. If you really like her she will be able to see it in your eyes..eyes tell all. good luck.

Answer 10

WOW THAT WAS BORING IT LOOKS LIKE ONE OF THOSE PASSAGES YOU HAVE TO READ FOR THE S A T'S. MAYBE YOU ARE TOOOO BORING FOR HER!