I am in love or lust. Is he too?
think someone at school may really like me as I do them but am unsure of the signs. The situation is complicated a little by me being Gay. To me whether he is Gay or Straight is irrelevant as the signs of someone fancying you should be the same more or less. What things should I look out for?
He has subtly touched me on the elbow, and body before. I was talking and gently grabbed my elbow. He did not want my attention so what did he do it for?
2006-10-11 05:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by Malcolm S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 19 and he is slightly younger
2006-10-11 05:32:31 · update #1
before you make any advances towards him make sure you are reading the signs right as it could be very embarressing if you have read them wrong. As you are still at school are you over the age of consent because if not it will be illegal if you progress to sex and that's the same for 2 guys or a girl and a guy. Good luck though.
2006-10-11 05:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you are Gay? It is very hard to say if he is flirting with you or merely feels you a close friend he is comfortable with. Do his eyebrows rise – and remain raised. In the first instant of seeing you, the brief, almost-unfakeable flash of a brow is usually a clear sign of interest. The best way to figure this out is to put yourself in situations where he has the oppurtunity to make a move (if this is what u want) If he knows you are gay, initiate a conversation with him about that subject. Ask if he knows anyone that is gay?
It doesn't sound like either of you are in love. That seems pretty unlikely. It doesn't sound like you are in lust either. Seems more of curiosity, perhaps lust will ensue once the direction of your relationship is clearer.
Good luck
2006-10-11 12:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you have these strong feelings for someone, anything they do will make you feel a certain way. Its ok to be Gay, i have tons of friends that are, but the whole nation are not so agreeing. Even though they are the pig headed ones, if you come out now and tellthis guy you like him, it could reep havoak for you, you should just wait a little more, see if anything else happens that makes you think OH MY GOD!! do you na i mean. if you want to talk to me you can email me and i will give you my adivce on anything further that you need.
goodluck and takecare.
2006-10-11 12:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust
2006-10-11 12:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
urm,l havnt u asked this q already and if you have y didnt you just put additional info on the original one?
No one can really tell you if they do or not as we don't know, its a tricky one!
MAybe wait for a few more signs!
I also don't think you love this person it is lust and desire from seeing them nearly everyday but not being able to touch them!
2006-10-11 12:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it dont matter if ur gay or not. u show him the same attention he's giving u so he knows its not a one way feeling and u dont feel the same. He maybe holding back because he doesnt no u feel the same. do whatever it takes n go get him!
2006-10-11 12:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by [<3] ellie [<3] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust
2006-10-11 12:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Elle's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably seeing if your built like a brick shithouse and if you're not he's gonna kick your *** lol
2006-10-11 12:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by sanders of the river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straighten yourself out!
2006-10-11 12:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by xochelsxo16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u?? cos if u r underage and non consenting it is sexual grooming or abuse!
2006-10-11 12:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Wobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋