Many ladies and girls say they find wearing high heels is sexy but what does that actually mean? Do they mean it is a physical turn on as in making them wet and aroused.Do they mean the shoes look sexy so they feel sexy, but not sexually aroused. Or do they mean that men find them sexy. It seems to be true that many men are actually turned on by seeıng high heels, but how many women get physıcally turned on by wearıng them?
2006-10-11 05:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by highland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't get turned on by them, but I do feel sexier. They make your legs look longer and slimmer and helps define your muscles. They look sexy so you feel sexy.
2006-10-11 05:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's many women who get physically turned on by wearing high heels. Women have a lower sex drive than men and we also get turned on by different things.
For example, I would like to get dressed up and might feel very satisfied with the look of the whole outfit including the heels but I wouldn't get turned on unless there was some feelings for some other person involved. Maybe a guy that I fancied and there was some holding hands or kissing. That would be when I would start to get turned on. But how I looked and dressed would have an influence on feeling good and getting in the mood.
Perhaps you should think about how you feel when you have a shower before making love and perhaps put on some spray or something. It's not the shower that turns you on but the feeling of what is going to happen. Well that is how it happens for me anyway. It's similar with high heels. They could be part of the process but the shoes themselves are just shoes.
Unless of course you have a fetish for shoes but I don't think many women have that kind of interest. My interest is more on the level of collecting different kinds of heels and what I can wear with what outfit and what height suits the occasion. It's an expensive hobby and it can be a painful one at times.
2006-10-14 00:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tammi J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire women who can walk around in those uncomfortable high heels all day like it's nothing!
I own some high heels but I find them uncomfortable and unsuitable for extended wear.
I think the women who say high heels are sexy are using the heels to attract men.... kinda like wearing perfume... these things are used to get men's attention.
2006-10-11 05:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on. Do you really think wearing heels makes a women wet ?? The shoes make you feel sexy.
2006-10-11 05:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means that they feel sexy and maybe some to the point of sexual arousal but it could mean they feel sexy because men think they are sexy. I would say mostly they feel sexy about it
2006-10-11 05:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you in on a little secret.. high heals hurt like h***!!!! you try walking around with a spike shooting up YOUR heal with every step!
We ONLY do it because is shapes our calves in a way that men like and makes dresses fall the way men like them to fall and makes us tall enough so we can see and be seen in a crowd.
They are not a turn on for women... or I should say for the wearer... the are only a turn on for those that look at the end result.
2006-10-11 05:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you finding it necessary to analyze a seeming inoccuous comment like "It makes me feel sexy"??
What makes you think that they are even turned on by it? Maybe....just maybe...it makes them feel more of a woman. A woman that oozes sexuality. That makes them feel they're attractive to someone of the opposite sex. Quit trying to read into this stuff.
Christ....everyone has to take a simple comment and take all the fun out of the art of seduction for us.
2006-10-11 05:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i could think of that the girls people in basic terms experience like they look appealing. wearing heels in no way excited me for my area, yet they elongate my legs and tighten my calf muscle tissues which makes for lots sexier legs.
2016-10-16 02:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wearing heels makes me look n feel sexier because it gives me a natural high n it also accentuates my long legs.
2006-10-11 05:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its more the act of dressing up than anything else. Personally, I feel sexiest barefoot or with flip-flops on.
2006-10-11 05:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋