If women just said, "NO!", all of these men would be eliminated IN ONE GENERATION! What is your problem, ladies? Why do you keep going back for more?
2006-10-11 05:16:34 · 22 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you let a big jerk inside of you, a little jerk is going to come one of you! Didn't your parents have that little talk with you?
2006-10-11 05:17:22 · update #1
come OUT of you, I meant to say.
2006-10-11 05:17:44 · update #2
Kencilove: *******. In the kitchen, from the couch, with a 20-foot wooden dowel.
2006-10-11 12:43:44 · update #3
Sad answer. . .
Because women (most of us) by nature are incredibly loving, forgiving, and nurturing. . .men were designed to be the hunters,physically, mentally, etc. . .women were disgned to have the babies, and care for the family. NOT that I am an anti-feminist. . .I believe women can do anything we put our minds to. . .but, in this caase it just is what it is.
I let my jerk bring me down to rock bottom. . .I hear what you are saying. . .but, really in my experiance if we didn't love and nuture and forgive the jerks. . .our species wouldn't survive.
Perhaps were this way because of evolution. . .maybe we have adapted to the jerks over these millions of years by becoming forgiving, loving, etc. . .
Don't know darling. . .but, all my love to you if you feel you are not in that catagory and may you be blessed with a woman unlike anyone else in the world ( :
Love from Michigan. . .
Fory
2006-10-11 05:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like women have this radar that says "Hey he is a douche, get away now"...Nope, its not always that simple and some people can be deceiving. Well, some women have low self-esteem and become dependent on these idiots and some are too naive to even realize what a douchebag their guy really is. I was married young and even though I saw what a jerkoff he was, I went through with the marriage anyway because I thought that he would change. I don't even think I need to put a conclusion to that one beyond that I am now divorced at 23. I put up with it for a long time because 1. I thought that he would change, 2. I did become dependent because he had the confidence in himself that I lacked within myself, 3. He was very controlling and actually convinced me that I would never make it without him, 4. His biggest lie that I wanted to believe, that he loved me always kept hope that he would change. Just because he was a complete asshole, doesn't mean that there weren't any good times throughout the marriage and my problem with never leaving always stemmed from thinking with my heart when I should of been using my head. I finally left after he cheated on me again for like the millionth time and although he tried to reconcile claiming that he would change blah, blah, blah...I went through with the divorce and am so happy that I did because he hasn't changed at all. I think that some women feel that they won't be able to make it on their own and don't realize the support system that they most likely have through friends and family, some stay because they don't want to put their happiness first over their children having both parent under one roof ( it took me a while to realize that it was better to leave and not subject the child to a bad relationship then it was to keep her parents together and miserable) and that in some sense they justify his bad behavior and think by staying it is some way the right or moral thing to do. The thing you fail to realize is that things are so much easier to decipher when you are on the outside then when you are stuck within so you shouldn't be so hard on women for falling prey to such bs. We are all only human and even though we all have the ability to reason and know what we should and shouldn't do, sometimes our judgement gets blinded and we make mistakes. Thats part of life but I do hope more women do wake up and get out of a relationship with someone who does not make them happy or is abusive or just disrespectful in any way bc it is absolutely no way to live.
2006-10-11 05:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by sicofitall325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are jerks, mean, abusive, disloyal, insincere, etc. If women really think that then they've got issues and need to look a little harder to find a good guy! They are out there! I know several.
2006-10-11 06:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're ALL like that. Duh! The word 'manipulate' has its root word being MAN. Men are expert manipulators, convincing us they're good until we find out otherwise. By then we just try and get the guy back the way he was in the beginning, which usually ends up in abuse to women anyway. We see the guy that was sweet to us and hope he will return, hoping he will come back. Unfortunately, he never does. Why we don't all turn gay is beyond me. I guess the vagina stuff is kind of the reason...ick.
2006-10-11 05:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Neophyte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW you are not talking to me that way, I for one don't put up with that BS and hopefully no other woman would. By the way, it takes more than one person to make a baby. Was your father abuseive....cause it sounds like you are a little jerk.
2006-10-11 05:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Candi S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that many men are just jerks. Luckily I am one of the exceptions. I am caring, loving, supportive, loyal, trustworthy, sincere, a good listener, and respectful. The real kicker is, I cant get a woman!!!
2006-10-11 05:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....you see it's not just the ladies fault!! You guys are just manipulative as we are. Most of the guys I know only want one thing......s e x!! So don't blame it all on the women. Can you really be that egotistic that you think women look for a@@hole guys to have s e x with just to have a@@hole babies with. Your an idiot...just to let you know,it takes 2 to tango,hun! Ok.there are some women crazy enough to do that, but not all of them.
2006-10-11 05:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with thousands and thousands of men including Harry S Truman and Winston Churchill. None of them comapres to Frank Sinatra.
2006-10-11 05:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what ya mean! it is very hard though i was hurt by my father and then hurt by my hubby! so i dont knwo if this is a good answer and im sure you have your opinions trust me i have mine on it too ! so many tings waiver my decision! why is he so angry ? this i have yet to find out i am a great wife!
2006-10-11 05:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by godisforme2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trouble is woman do say no, men just are selectively deaf at that moment imagine that?
2006-10-11 05:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by peanut 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋