I feel I dont have any one in this world?

Question

My problem is that i dont have any best friends.when ever i see 2 friends moving closely i feel sad and some times weep that i am not able to have one such friend.No one keeps his hand on me with affection.I am really dieing for love from a friend.what to do?I have always been an abandoned person from my child hood .I want to have a best friend to show my great love and receive his love as well.what to do to win best friend as fast as possible?

Answer 1

I am really sorry about your situation. I can be your friend and if you want to talk to email me. maybe i can help. but right now you are really needy and you need to be secure and not be so overly desperate cause you will bring it out into the relationship so what i woudl sugges is.

try to get over this feeling of lonliness by doing some thing fun with hobbies or join a club? be confident in who you are, hold yourself up! no one wants to be with a weak and negative person. so you need to snap out of this and look at life in a positive way.

If you are unhappy now..how can you be with someone and be happy? you need to love yourself first...if you emit positiviness and a uplifting outlook ..you will have friends...

Answer 2

Don't feel bad, the best friends I ever had is when I was a young child. I used to be so close with this one girl we always slept in the same sleeping bag together (just friends, trust), but any way, I haven't ever been that close with a female since those days and I also miss that. Most of my friends now are just people I do stuff with and I can't say I totally trust them. I have met most of them through work. Only advise I can give you is to get involved with community groups, volunteer groups maybe, then maybe you can meet some quality people. Church groups are good too :)

Answer 3

I am a social phobe, but I still have a few great friends. And I don't mind telling you that most of my friendships started on the internet. My very best friend in the world started as a blog friend, and now we are very close and see each other at least once a month, even with our busy lives. Perhaps you can join some forums or chat rooms for people in your area. Find some people with like interests, get to know them a bit online first so that there isn't much awkwardness when you meet in person for the first time. Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

its not something u can buy it to ask for it very easy n as fast as possible i don know how old r u but i just want u to start from the things u like to do if u have any hobby practice it meet ppl who share ur thoughts n believes b more outgoin n the most important thing u have to love urself so u can get love from someone else n am sure theres someone there waitin u to b his /her best friend n don make it so drama i left my 2 best friends n moved to another country n i dont have any best friend here lol n i still live n laugh n go out normal n 1 more thing dont live in a big jail when ever ur free spend ur time outside the house n good luck

Answer 5

Oh, dear! I had a student like this once, who thought that if he only had a girlfriend again, everything would be solved! then I met his parents and spotted the problem right away (overprotective, sure that their son was a failure and so on...).

You sound like you are depressed! Find a good therapist and with that, and possibly medication (and I"m the LAST person you'll meet who would casually advocate antidepressants, as I think they're overused!)....you should be able to realize that YOU must be your own "best friend"!. No kidding.

Answer 6

I'm not quite sure of which kind of friendship you are wanting. There are three different types of best friends: One type is you and bf/gf (spouse), two is you and someone you just hang out with every once in awhile (like go shopping, to a movie, go to lunch, have coffee at each others house, etc.), three is you and a family member (like mom,dad,sis,bro., daughter,son, etc). I'm not really sure how anyone can answer this question without more detail on what you are considering a friend.

Answer 7

Wow. This is NOT going to solve your problem. You are unhappy with you--and that's why you don't have any "best friends." You aren't dying from this. And trying to "win a best friend as soon as possible" is not good. Not good for the other person. You will surely become addicted to that person and everyone needs space. You'll hold them hostage and smother them.

You need to get help--professional help from a therapist.

Answer 8

You have to put OUT what you want to come back IN to you.

You know this saying:
"Reap what you sew."

If you want a friend, BE a friend.
Start volunteering, tutoring, join book clubs, or go out and dance,
start going to events where you can meet people, and do all the things that you would like to do with a friend.
This will attract TONS of friends to you, just watch.
Change your attitude and you will see magic.

Answer 9

It seems you have been experiencing more loneliness-keeping yourself isolated and not willing to expose yourself to an external world where all seem to be enjoying company of each other,but never satisfied and still have the taste of loneliness.You can not be more than what you think.Your friends are in your thoughts.If you have the craving to give love to someone without expectation of anything,you will receive love from all and even from unexpected people.Have luck and believe you are not alone in a world of misery and loneliness.

Answer 10

dont feel bad i didnt have many friends either but dont go searching and it will come to you! ull be okay..I only have about 3 good goof friends and some of them moved its hard..i sometimes feel alone too .. if you need a friend my names jessica im 17 years old and i can help you .. and theres no way to win a best friend fast unless they want you for the wrong reasons like money or to use you sweetheart