i love him very much but it seem like he doesnt want to be with me anymore and i wish god could just make it possible where me(Ashley) and Abner could be together
2006-10-11 05:10:40 · 24 answers · asked by ASHLEY S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Ashley,
Some of God's greatest blessings are unanswered prayer.
God could force everyone to "be with Him" but HE will not force this on anyone. He wants only those who want HIM because anything else would not be free will. If Abner does not want to be with you, would you want him even if you could force him? His heart would not be there and I assure you, neither of you would be happy.
2006-10-11 05:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would but there is one problem. It looks like it wasn't meant to be sweetie and you need to except that. I will pray for you to help you get over Abner. Just remember when God closes one door he always opens another even if it take a while to get the other door open..smiles. God Bless
2006-10-11 05:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jenah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ashley and Abner. Got a good ring to it. If it's God's will, it'll happen.
2006-10-11 05:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Red neck 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would it not be more constructive to sit down and talk with Abner and perhaps try to find a common basis for a relationship...
2006-10-11 05:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Blackacre 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
listen to me sweetie,
i spent 4 years praying to get back together with this guy i knew who i loved with all my heart and soul (he was my first love), and while this was going on there was this other guy (Darren) who kept asking me out, then one day i said yes (he had asked that much i said yes to shut him up lol).
well to cut a long story short i am now one of the luckiest people in the world because 3 years ago me and Darren got married and i have a lovely husband who loves me as much as i love him.
so to wrap it up if you spend the rest of your life praying for Abner you could miss out on your own Darren and be as happy and lucky as me and many other people in the world
good luck
wishing you love and happiness
Missy x
2006-10-15 02:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by mwashington_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God intends for you to meet someone even nicer than Abner.
2006-10-11 05:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will pray that u will b together if it is in God's will. even if u do not get the answer u want, remember that: -
we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Rom 8:28, KJV
for any of you out there who think you don't need God, and are not asure an eternity in Heaven: -
http://www.needgod.com
http://eternitywhere.com
2006-10-11 11:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can wish you luck for this, whatever the reason you wanna be with if for. But you've gotta do things by yourself and make a move, if you really want something. Sometimes only parying is not enough.
2006-10-11 07:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by ono 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to be happy in life,u need to make u r self happy.Get on with life.Time cures all hurts.Change the location where you leave for some time.By some time you forget him.May be you find who loves u or admires you
2006-10-11 05:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck babe, but you can't force love!
If you do it by magic or God something bad will happen in the long run that will take that person away from you forever!
You need to chill out and slowely get over this guy!
2006-10-11 05:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋