2006-10-11 05:08:51 · 8 answers · asked by klalighting 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I find men who are confident and comfortable with themselves the most appealing. Confident men who are also warm, considerate and intelligent are even better.
2006-10-11 05:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh didn't I answer this question already?
Physically, I like my men to have the chest area (arms, shoulders, pecs, etc...) not too flat. I don't like muscular types though... The legs are also imposrtant; the way he moves, how he dances (not being an expert but comfortable enough to dance, you know?). I like them raw, wearing jeans and like... It all depends on the guy, actually. It's whatever type he may be, as long as he is comfortable with himself, his body language, what he "feel" like without talking to him. It's hard to explain; I myself am attracted to various types, but it all comes down to what he's putting out there in terms of "feeling".
Emotionally; secure, trusting (not jealous), not violent, not an abuser, etc... Again it all depends on the guy, but I usually pick up on those violent abusive types which should be avoided at all costs!
Oh yeah and those "gang players" or whatever... Those types of guys want trophy chicks not life partners so I don't even bother!
2006-10-11 06:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks...i don't care who you are..looks are always the first point of attraction and then what comes out of your mouth make the first ultimate impression. I can't tell you how many fine men i have met and the first thing out of their mouth is something arrogant. Im done with it after that. Seriously im like keep walking fabio wannabe. Its who you are inside because a real relationship will make the make-up fall off sweetie.
2006-10-11 05:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by mcshankel04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find their strengths the most attractive. I don't like sissy men! The way they smell is also a good thing!
2006-10-11 05:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning : how he dresses, holds himself, does he hold himself With confidence etc.
After knowing him a bit- smile, eyes etc
2006-10-11 05:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i like them to have a sense of humor, with some brains, and cute
2006-10-11 05:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open mindedness
intelligence/smart/ emotional intelligence
cultured
athletic
sexual
curious
personable
Worldly
loyal
considerate
warm
confident
stylish
good hygiene
2006-10-11 05:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSONALITY FIRST, THEN THE A**!!!
2006-10-11 05:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋