Hey guys! Do you think guys will mind if the girlfriend is busy all the time with her works and can only meet with the boyfriend once a week (and only for few hours)... What will you do if you really like the girl? Get yourself as busy as her so that both party is only free on weekend?? Or, just dump her? But she is quite good-looking and smart and lovely, the type of girl that most of the guys like yet usually never dare to approach that type (scare of getting rejected by the girl). So how? What to do?
2006-10-11 05:01:11 · 5 answers · asked by The Wondering Why 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's tough. If she is too busy to ever see me or talk to me, then I don't feel like I have a relationship. The busy girl has to show that she is making an honest effort to try to be with me when she can, in order for me to think that she cares. Otherwise, I assume that she will make a poor wife and mother, since her priorities lie with her job, not her family & friends.
I had a long distance relationship with a girl in Singapore. Since she is too busy to chat or write, it sort of fizzled out. I haven's spoken to her in a long while. :-(
2006-10-13 08:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically I don't mind my gf is workaholic. I believe that as her bf I have to be understanding coz there are some works that required people to work shift or work late. Meeting once a week is not an issue as long as both of us have trust in each other rather meeting everyday but doen't trust each other at all.
I always believe that people should have something that have a higher priority than others. I don't think you need to do anything coz if the guy is really interested in you, he will take the initiative to start a relationship with you
2006-10-12 15:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make it very hard for both partys, especially me being a guy I would start to wonder, is she really working this much? Why cant she take some time off for me? I mean you have to make a compromise a little and I dont think a realtionship can really work if you only see each other once a week and only for a few hours, I know I would want to spend more time with you especially if you say your are extremely good looking, fun-spirited, and always like to have a good time........I hope this is what you are looking for Good Luck
2006-10-11 05:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by DEREK A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its okey as long as she has time in your relationship but if the girl is a workaholic uhmm most of the guys will be intimidated by her... but in general those kind of relationship doesn't work especially now guys are not patient enough and some of them are insecures...
2006-10-11 05:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you look for in a girlfriend.
Is her being able to keep you company more impt or is her being good looking and smart more important?
Different people hold different things as being important so it would be best to set up your prorities first.
2006-10-11 17:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋