whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart
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that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?
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and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.
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I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world
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i mean i just cant get over her, I have never in my life, liked anyone, or felt so strongly for somone. Believe me, this isnt a crush, I have had many, but htis is more
2006-10-11 04:50:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen buddy your both still young well she is really young, its happened to me when I was your age I thought I really loved this girl which I was friends with, and she said that she didn't, it hurts it really hurts big time. She is still young she might me scared of her dad, give it time, remain friends for example forest Gump if you have seen the film you will know what I mean. Get yourself a girlfriend, trust me she will get jealous and end up wanting you, you never know what you have until you lost it. Hope this helps.
2006-10-11 05:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by greekmanuk81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really liker her? Answer it first before seeing the next line
If you do like her, then don't ruin your relationship with her. She wants you to be with her for the rest of her life that's why she wants you to be her friend but something else. Sometimes, you have to sacrify for someone you really loves. Maybe your friend doesn't think about love right now. And plus you're just 15, the love you're talking about is just the puppy love...you have life to move on and you will find many girls in the future and who knows, maybe by hat time, this girl might come back and says she likes you too.
2006-10-11 05:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are so cute!!! Just keep being friendly to her, but don't tell her that you like her like that. She's young..and probably doesn't know what she feels. I remember feeling that way when I was 13 (10 yrs ago!!!) and when I look back, I let a lot of great guys slip by cause I was so young and confused. Just be casual with her, but definately don't come accross as needy or desperate; that turns chicks off. Things will work out they way they are supposed to. Remember that.
2006-10-11 04:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by trickyandmysterious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat it. i mean shes ur friend there is gonna be someone else who u will like more. and wether u like it or not she is a crush and u need to let go. just think of her as one of the guys you will get over her but not in quickly and look for another girl. by the way u sound u wont stay single.....for long. i know how u feel im turning 15 and this happened to me b4 and i got over my friend and we have better communication since then. because we can trust eachother with anything!
2006-10-11 04:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by sxyltchiqi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 15 it is not abnormal to feel this way, but you need to back off and focus on the rest of your life. You have plenty of time to think about your love life. At 15 chances are you have no idea what day to day love with all the pro's and con's is really about. You don't express real love in cow eyed adoration, but in making a life long commitment understanding what it is for two people to become as one.
2006-10-11 04:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just isent feeling attracted to you and because your only a freind to her you dont have much chance to get her your in the freind catagory . Stay freinds and move on . It doesent matter if your good looking or play baseball and stuff like that its how you make them feel attraction for you and you dont make her feel it . Im just being honest and true but its over . Good luck
2006-10-11 05:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it to the heart. i have been in your shoes. the only advice that i can give you is to try and move on. it took me a long time before i got over that particular person but i was happy afterwards because i found someone for me that liked me as much as i liked them. it might hurt to let her go but it is for the best because there might never be anything betwwen yall other than friendship and you don't want to waste you time trying. move on.
2006-10-11 05:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait. Now that you have told her, she will come to you if she likes you in the future.
She can change, we all change. I love a girl but last year I did not have any feelings for her.
Give her time. Just be friends and she will change when she realizes how much you love her.
Good Luck, hope your love succeeds
2006-10-11 05:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, be all that you can be and if it is ment to be it will. Don't avoid her, spend time with her just as if you never told her your feelings. Love hurts but it is worth it.
2006-10-11 04:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by the_news_junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need not worry about girls right now, try a spelling class or two..maybe she can't see herself with you because you can't spell worth a **** ,and she thinks your an idiot
2006-10-11 04:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by choiceprimerib 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋