I was pretty certain that this guy was totally into me. We hit it off 2 weeks ago and finally admitted to each other how intimidated we were by the other, and how we liked each other. He's totally single and really shy...After a night of kissing and cuddling, things were fine. Over Txt, he suggested hanging out the next wkend, but then blew me off cuz of what he said was a busy week @ work. He has a GOOD job where he travels for what he does. He hadn't called me at all but when my GF saw him at the gym for the first time in a week (he usualy goes everyday) she asked what was going on with us, he said he felt real bad about being so busy, didn't want me to think he was blowing me off and that he really wanted to see me again. I saw him 2 days ago..he tried to get my attention while I was working out and then came up to me and we talked for like, 30 min...he didn't even work out. He said he was real sorry for not calling and we'd hang when he gets back nxt week. So does this guy like me?
2006-10-11 04:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by trickyandmysterious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, but he does sound real busy. You need to be patient and give him the space he needs or he will see you as a "high maitenance person" and blow you off. I say play a little "aloof" yourself, and watch what happens.
I think he will be persuing you like you want.
2006-10-11 04:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly its hard to say. I mean you dont know if its because he was hanging out with some other girl or not. Hemight like you alot. I think the only way to find out is wait. If he blows you off to much then leave. You can't wait for ever for this guy. You need some one who can be there for you and/or will at least call you.
2006-10-11 11:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, guys really aren't that dumb. The 'aloof' act is usually just that. An act. Watch any tv program that portays all men as bumbling idiots and the female characters think it's cute.
2006-10-11 11:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say yes, but I have a nagging feeling he's not a honest guy for some odd reason. I think you should play a little hard to get to see if he is. If he chases after you then yes. I hate for you to get hurt.
2006-10-11 11:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might like you. Either that or he's playing a game. Proceed with caution, and don't call him more than once a week unless he calls you first.
2006-10-11 11:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by E V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he does by what you said, give it sometimes and you will know.
2006-10-11 11:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does but not as much as you will like him too like you.
2006-10-11 11:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋