what can we do to help Gay/lesbians??

Question

o.k I know i'm gonna get a lot of hands down - bad comments - and all that stuff - well it does not matter - but after a research i found out that something against God , nature , family and society - I mean i don't judge anyone here - I'm not against you guys - i'm against the sexual behaviour - i was reading a passage where it says " that God created women so men cannot be alone" well if you meditate in that statement is all true - I know that is hard to believe you coul be wrong !! but my point here is that - that's not the way me and women were created!! I've seen gays restored and become heal.. you can be too

angelic - of course he loves you and accepts you - but your not living according to his will -ask yourself is God happy with the way i'm going??

Answer 1

I think if we make them understand its ADAM AND EVE, not ADAM AND STEVE, we will have come a long way... Once society stops trying to cram this behavior down our throats as acceptable and honorable that will also help.

Answer 2

First off, you're completely wrong. Second, you are judging, by posting this you're going against what your bible tells you. Third, I have many gay friends that are better Christians than you. Fourth, it's easy to take parts of the Bible out of context and use them to fit what ever propaganda you're selling. Think for yourself, OK, stop spreading the ignorance, and pay more attention to the lessons Jesus taught. There is enough hate in this world (and yes, you're promoting it, and what's worse is you don't realize it), so anything that is love between two people can't be wrong. What part of that scares you? God created gay people the same way he created morons like yourself.

Ask yourself, "Is God happy that I'm acting as his mouth piece when I clearly don't know what the hell I'm talking about?" Think about it. Don't try and speak for something that you can not possibly comprehend.

Answer 3

The best way to help anyone is by helping oneself and showing them the expected lifestyle and the benefit of that lifestyle. By letting Christ shine through YOU.

I do like what you said about not being against THEM, but the behavior...that means that your heart is in the right place.

I'd also like to share with you a greater understanding concerning "judgment":

1 Corinthians 6:3
Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?

It is the expectation of the Christian to judge the world...but NOT for the purpose of condemnation...instead, for the purpose of being full of knowledge and wisdom AND to encourage others that are doing well, and discourage negative behaviors. There is only ONE Judge of eternity, which is Christ Jesus. We don't have the authority to get anyone in heaven OR send anyone to hell.

Hope this is helpful. Peace to you and yours.

Answer 4

God created Men and Women in his image. This includes gays. Don't you think you should be a little less judgemental and let God decide when the time comes?

Answer 5

There is ample research that shows gay men's brains are structurally and functionally more like a woman's brain than a man's brain. I'm pretty sure that is the doing of something a little more powerful than just 'desiring' to be gay.

If you want to 'help' gays and lesbians, treat them with respect. Support their civil rights as they are human, just as you are human. They deserve the same rights, respect and common human decency that you do.

~Morg~

Answer 6

you should turn the question onto yourself. no one is ever going to change the fact that there are homosexuals, not even taking away basic human rights which has already been proven not to work. ask yourself what you can do to be a more kind and accepting person to another human being. doesn't your bible teach you to hate the sin, but not the sinner?

Answer 7

I was delivered from that! God is so merciful! I didn't want to be gay. I was miserable. When I turned back to God, I didn't realize how easy it would be to change. When I first gave my life to Him again, I didn't know what I thought of that. I did continue dating guys for awhile, but then the Lord took away my desire for those relationships. I somehow knew that I had a better life in store for me, and that I just needed to make a decision not to date guys.

I'm not quite sure how we can help people who are in that lifestyle. it's pretty complicated, because I remember a lot of things I was thinking about religion when I was gay. I didn't know what to think. I wanted to have a relationship with God, because I still believed in Him, but I couldn't get past the homosexuality issue.
I think the hardest thing for people to understand is that they don't have to be gay just because they only feel attracted to the same sex. God can change that, and wants to change it, because homosexuality is not what He wants for us. He created us for a relationship with the opposite sex, and I think it is so much better.

The question I asked the most was "If God doesn't want me to be gay, why did He make me gay?" I thought it was cruel that I was created that way, then had to try harder than everyone else to obey God. But I came to realize that first of all, I always was attracted to women, but I just ignored that for awhile. I was pretty much just distracted with the gay lifestyle. It took a lot of my attention for awhile. Like in high school, when I was 'coming out', and I had to deal with that, with all the rumours about my personal life, I had problems with my family... and so many other things related to that. It consumed me for awhile. I had forgotten that I didn't have to label myself "gay" just because I liked guys at the time. That only made it impossible for me to have relationships with girls (which was really unfortunate) because I was just seen as one of the few fags at our school. Anyway, i feel like I've told too much of my story and haven't answered your question.
I hope I've been able to offer some insight on the topic. God bless

Answer 8

You could leave them alone.

Go find all the things in that fake book that you are doing wrong, and fix that.

All sins being equal in your sky daddy's eyes and vanity being a sin, your 100's of questions about your hair will earn you a seat next to them. Others have already pointed out the obvious, that you are judging.

Answer 9

watching 2 sexy looking ladies giving each other pleasure and loving each other is a good thing, and cannot be condemned by anyone. Watching gay men is a matter of taste. Not mine,or yours. But ask most Catholic priests and they might enjoy it, if they were totally honest.

Answer 10

Here's what we can do to help homosexuals:

1. Be CONSTRUCTIVELY critical of their lifestyle. We've got to have solid facts, research and we've got to stick to our guns, here.

2. Be open and accepting of the people who are willing to address their problem. We can't mince words when we say "we hate the sin, but not the sinner".

3. We build successful Christian communities.

Here's some links
http://www.newswithviews.com/psychology/psychology2.htm
http://www.leaderu.com/stonewall/pages/alan.html
http://www.intellectualconservative.com/article3520.html
http://www.sbministries.org/

Answer 11

Yes, if you're a Christian, it's considered a sin. It clearly says so in the bible.

That makes me wonder why any homosexual would want to be a Christian...

BTW... My sister is a lesbian. And she has been so since before she knew what sex was. We all knew she would end up that way, ever since she was a child. Call it a sin if you like, but if it is, god played a dirty trick on my sister when he created her that way...