I see men looking at me from across the club like I'm some kind of dessert, but no one ever talks to me. What's up with that?
2006-10-11 04:19:31 · 16 answers · asked by faierylady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have an interesting dance style that seems to attract a lot of attention. When I notice people staring, I generally stop dancing and start picking my noise. I have actually had to tell one guy that I'm not a srtipper. (No, I don't dance like one, he just grabbed a stool and sat down beside me and stared so hard!)
2006-10-11 05:26:44 · update #1
It may be the "vibes" you're sending out. No one likes rejection, so if a guy is eyeing you and your body language is saying "don't even think about it" then he is not going to approach you.
However if you smile at him or use any other subtle gesture to let him know he has the green light I'm sure you'll have plenty talking to you.
2006-10-11 04:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change Clubs if that's the one you always go to. You may be part of the gossip mill, good or bad. Sounds like the guys need a bit of self-esteem lessons also. You ever try going up to them and asking if they're window shopping or are they still in training? Good Luck, keep smileing
2006-10-11 11:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Steve G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the attitude of a woman that knows that she is attractive ... that makes her unapproachable to some men ... I don't really believe that no one ever talks to you .. if u want them 2!!
some men are not put off that easily .. and some men .. don't wanna play the game ...
Dr Bad
2006-10-11 12:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be scared to talk. It happens with some cute women as guys feel she would expect a high quality partner. Also many cute women do not give positive response for our look, smile & even when we say hi. I prefer eye contact but many women do not. May be you are like that case. Stay infront of mirror and see how you can change your facial reaction to invite a guy to talk to you.
2006-10-11 11:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but if you are hot and I was on the other side of the room, I would come up to you in a heart beat and wipe you off of your feet. Okay maybe I am dreaming here, but at least I would try. It is about being sure of yourself.
2006-10-11 11:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence makes a woman hard to aproch or men think the woman is beyonf there league
2006-10-11 11:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a point where a guy assumes a hot girl is probably already taken, cause most of em are, so thats why most don't try.
2006-10-11 11:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your appearance might be to intimidating to some, or your really hot, most likely you look like you might reject most men and no one likes to get rejected, if one of them looks appealing to you ask them to dance with you
2006-10-11 11:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ismael Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A snooty attitude. Ever think of going up to a guy and asking them instead?
2006-10-11 11:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by 2headedgecko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when guys do that! What works best for me is that when I catch them looking, I smile, nod or keep flirty eye contact. If they are man enough to approach me, I figure they are worth my time for a conversation.
2006-10-11 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋