I have everything... 2 wonderful children, a BF that adores me, huge home, the best career in the world.... I feel empty though? like I am missing something.... What is wrong with me........
2006-10-11 04:10:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My job is in the legal field and it is very flexible hours. I set my clients schedules.I spend a lot of time with my children and participate in their school very frequently. As for my BF He is a head Coach at collegele level sports and has a career as well. My mother passed and my father lives in my town as well as brothers and sisters. I seem them frequently. I have tons of friends and get together weekly with them...
2006-10-11 05:13:50 · update #1
Spice up yur life take a vacation, get out with the kids more, have a party, call friends and relatives and reminiss about old times...
2006-10-11 04:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned your wonderful children and a BF that adores you....... (he adores you and your not married?) a huge home and the best career in the world, but you never mentioned a *FAMILY* or even your *FAMILY*, mom, dad, sisters, brothers, and so on. Perhaps you do have these few wonderful things, but what you could really use in your life........ is stability with your BF, from BF to *husband* and to have that *FAMILY* aura there. And perhaps you could use a little R&R family time, like a picnic at a park, or going to a ball game and cutting loose. Or maybe dinner at your mom and dads house with your 2 wonderful children and your BF. You are empty for a little sharing, a little REAL loving moments, and a surrounding of REAL security for just a few hours in a day. I hope you get it. Blessed be........
2006-10-11 11:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Only you know that answer to what you are missing. It's probably staring you in the face, but you just can't name it. The only question I can offer to help is what are you doing for you? With all of those wonderful things comes a lot of responsibility and no time for you. While children and a boyfriend are not things to be taken for granted, you still need time to yourself to enjoy doing what you want to do. Take some time alone: a hot bath, or even a weekend away and ponder your question about feeling empty. When I'm feeling not right and can't peg what's wrong, I just start writing, and the answer always comes in one, simple sentence. To get started (which is the hardest part), I just start writing like a diary about my life and eventually you'll get a rant that will give you the answer.
2006-10-11 11:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money and a huge home will by your heart nothing, if something in your life is missing!! Look outside of all of those material thing's and find out what your soul is missing??
I am sure you are a Great mother, and your children love and adore you, Along with your Boyfriend.
You do not sound too Happy though for having it all... Good Luck and Cheer up!!
2006-10-11 11:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have all the love of family and friends and romance. When you have money and material possessions and you still feel empty chances are you are missing something spiritually. Maybe you should look into yourself and look around for something to believe in.
2006-10-11 11:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how human nature is. Sometimes we are just never enough happy to be real happy and we always wait for some day when we are going to be real happy. But the truth is that tomorrow never comes and today is the day to joy. So be happy what you are today.
2006-10-11 11:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage with the BF that adores you?
Maybe you need Jesus.
2006-10-11 11:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need Jesus...Girl Jesus....
Maybe a Hobby...go to my website and signed up to be a MaryKay consultant on www.marykay.com/Bernie_Carter
2006-10-11 11:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be time to spend with ur children or BF
2006-10-11 11:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by prabhan_a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no challenges! When everything is great we sometimes get bored or in a routine.
2006-10-11 11:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋