i think i still lov him, but it has been 2 yeas and i need to move on, since he moved on.
2006-10-11 04:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by Cleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard, but you need to keep yourself busy, get out and meet new people and avoid ANY contact with him and his new life. When you see or hear about him, you will think about him. And that's not a good way to get over someone. Tell all your friends that you don't want to be told about him and throw out anything that reminds you of him. Burn it if you can safely. Erase every trace of him and then start to rebuild your life. It will take time but it WILL happen.
2006-10-11 04:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cleo, love is a strange thing , don't I know it! 2years babe and you think you still love him , maybe you do , some people it's like grieving , after splitting up from a person they have loved. You say he has moved on , well he has gone so it is time to go out with your girl friends don't go looking for a man , I bet you that you will be surprised how many men are out there looking for a girl like you, let them approach you go on a few dates , don't jump in strait away with the 1st bloke that asks you out , take your time and you will meet a great guy one day and think , gosh why didn't I do this sooner. I met a guy which I had fun with at first , I tried ti finish with him but he begged me to give it another go and now I love him dearly and it has been 8yrs, and he was my 3rd love and my last I only wish I had met him 1st but life is here to test us , do try and get out and about more and you wont be alone for long I bet lv Debbie j x
2006-10-11 04:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by bonniebella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on also. Think more about the present and future. Don't obsess over someone until you are engaged to them.(Obsess is not quite the word I want, but you get the point.) Be hopeful. Understand that good men in general have wonderful things about them. Just as good as your ex.
I wish you well.
2006-10-11 04:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by superdave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/l9RIB
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 03:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a smilliar situation and hoped that one day things will change for the better... well 2 1/2yrs down the road it did not... my point, please move on with your life.. Look for extra things to do.. like a new hobby, meet new friends or even take a few weeks or days to really do a soul searching.. no point in wasting your life... its too short and when the ex has already moved on then its a clear indication for you to do that tooo....
Good luck.....
2006-10-11 04:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a conscious decision to move on ... go out with your friends, get drunk, go clubbing, meet other people.
If you're really stuck, join a club or gym, take up a hobby that would mean meeting people (salsa dancing or something where there are men too)
Failing all that, you could sleep with me ... but then that would just put you off guys for life!
2006-10-11 04:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do not no because i am stck to wit the same things so i jus take it day by day and get new friends to hang out wit and see if they want a realtionship after u no them for a while and take it from there get rit of all the stuff he gaveu re arrange things so u will not remember him being there and try no to think about him but call and be friends sometimes that works well goodluck
2006-10-11 04:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and see if u can love again. Its possible becuase I have gone through it. I cant say that if my ex showed up that I woulnt still have feelings for him, but I an now completely in love with another. Hope everything workd out for you.
2006-10-11 04:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to pull yourself together.Am going thur the same thing right now and mine was 7years and am just trying to get by but am actually pulling by so pls just hold on you will get a better person thats just what i feel
2006-10-11 04:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard sweetie. iv been apart from my ex for almost three years and still i love him. we just have to move on and try and love someone else, find a good man and try not to compare him to your ex and dont expect it to feel the same as before coz it never does! hope this helps.
2006-10-11 04:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by kirsty b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋