me and my ex-girlfriend had 2 break up due to her religious parents stopping her from going out by herself and taking her phone so that she has no contact with me...she still contacts me using the internet instant messaging etc. i think she still loves me and i know that i still love her even though we dont say it 2 each other directly..what shall i doo??????
2006-10-11 04:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're both over the legal age of consent in whatever country you're living in, her parents legally cannot do that to her. But still, the religious community her family are in could give them a hard time if she decides to break away from them to be with you ... are you prepared for that?
Likewise, you need to ask yourself, can you really ostracize her from her family? They won't want to know her if she leaves them ... It is a very difficult situation, because if she needs her Mum (and if you and she start a family, she probably would need her Mum), she is not likely to have that help. By asking her to leave her family, you are taking away what is a woman's very important social foundation ... are you prepared to accept both the consequences and the guilt?
2006-10-11 04:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let her stupid fanatical parents get in the way - presuming you are ov legal age (i.e 16 years and over) go for it.
Her Parents have absolutely no write to force any beliefs upon her at all - this country is all about freedom of choice - The Law is On Your Side.
Arrange to meet her via what means you have
2006-10-11 04:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds that the time has come to sit down and discuss your relation ship,and about any worries you have about parents coming between you Luck
2006-10-11 04:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in order to get her parents on your side.. you should try going out with the family so they can see what type of guy you are.
2006-10-11 04:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give it a few days or weeks and if things do not get better tell her to come back to u when all this stuff dies down a lil well i wish u the best of luck
2006-10-11 04:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to the house and have a word with them and ask them what is the problem.to me their using religion as an excuse
2006-10-11 06:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she - is she old enough to make her own decisions regarding what she wants, is she brave enough to stand up to her parents and tell them what she wants - if not you gotta live with it sorry
2006-10-11 04:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait on God, pray and talk to her parents they will respect you for it and mite change their minds
2006-10-11 04:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋