Is this how it ends? Pls advice.....?

Question

I am 32 years old......not to sound conceted but very good looking BUT for some reason cannot sustain a realtionship......just last month I had two break-ups.....current boyfriend and with an ex from a couple years ago that I thought changed/evolved but he is still the same....a jerk......what advice would give a girl who has totally given up hope......serious answers pls.....thanks

Answer 1

Don't try so hard and give yourself a break! First of all, when you are looking for a man you never find him, or one who is worthy of you and you usually settle for less. Get to some you time, pamper yourself, take up a hobby because when you are happy and glowing, then you will attract the right kinds of men. It's hard out there, all the rules change, but just be you. Be happy to be independent and have fun, he'll find you.

Answer 2

You know how they say it's the prom queen who gets the dates but the presedent of the chess club that gets married? Or something along those lines. there are a million sayings. I think that guys love the blond hair and blue eyes until it comes down to getting married because they are afraid of competition for the rest of their lives. Some men aren't comforable being with a woman that other guys are going to stare at forever. Other guys love it, but not all of them. If you've got a great personality to go with those looks then don't worry a guy will come along that will be right for you. You need to keep it in your head that if the relationship didn't work out it's because he wasn't the right guy. And think of it this way, if we have one soul mate on this earth, how many people are on this planet? Some people get lucky and find that person right away, some people settle because they get tired of looking. And others don't find that person until they are a bit older. It may seem like your life is getting closer and closer to being over and yet you're still single but my mom is 46 and I still consider her very young. She's still looking for mr right since it obvioulsy wasn't my dad. When you find him all the waiting will be worth it.

Answer 3

Do a very deep self diagnosis on your behavior. Find out your quirks and your issues and try to resolve them. You're obviously doing something to kill these relationships. Also, you might try dating a different type of guy. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place.

Answer 4

i study this in school

maybe u need to evaluate yourself and see what s going on with u that is impossible to hold onto a relationship

one of my friends, she cant hold on to a relationship because she gets bored real which is an impairment in her part


i have another friend who will find anything wrong with a man to break up with them and that s an impairment


try to find out what is making u not last in a relationship and try to correct

if u feel to ask more question feel free to email me and ask

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Answer 5

Well, did YOU end it or did they???? Maybe look at the guys you choose to date??? Are ya attracted to Bad Boys or jerks??? I ask cause Im a nice guy and ALWAYS end up in the friends zone even though I'm a good lookin guy *Also not concieted*

Answer 6

You are in a fix,
Try more serious men. They will hold on you like the best pearl. Forget about players and conmen. Have a good time. Try also to change your acts.

Answer 7

Keep searching. The quote "There's someone for everyone" is totally true. You'll find Mr. Right eventually. Don't give up! ;)

Answer 8

I'm 32 also and single.So atleast you still have hope,i'm a guy but wish i had someone ANYONE that i could share something with.

Answer 9

Look within. Are you carrying baggage that you may not be aware of and bringing them to your relationships?

Answer 10

just dnt give up hope and be sure that there is a guy out there who is ment to be ur soulmate ... Good luck :)