I can't accept myself!?

Question

I can't accept the fact that I'm a human with biological needs and stuff. I hate everything. Sometimes I'm even suicidal.

How to accept myself or accept people?

Answer 1

Not trying to be mean, but you need to seek professional help. Suicide is not the way to take care of it. Please call someone, they can help.

Answer 2

You are a human being. Your a soul with a body not a body with a soul first off. stuff is materialistic and I was 8 years ago suicidal. If you really were than you would have already done and not have written on here for unconscience sympathy. But keep in mind that say you throw yourself off a building then half way done think this is not a good idea,..you don't even have time to think and believe you me, you do not want to do that. Pleaes I ask you not to. To accept is to just take everything as it is. Reapeat to yourself IT IS WHAT IT IS, you can't control anything or anyone. by the way it is your ego that keeps you safe, not a good thing because then you wont ask someone out or go for that job. It keeps you from going out onto limbs.if you need to talk some more contact me...Scully [e-mail]
cheers darlin.

Answer 3

You should accept yourself for who you are, but your looks at 13 don't mean much. People's bodies and facial features mature until they are in their 20s. I'm in college now and people that were less attractive or normal looking in high school now look like models. The opposite is also true, nothing like drugs and partying for years straight to make someone go from pretty to ugly. I remember in high school junior to senior year a lot of girls started blooming, some people just take longer. Don't stress out, you have a lot of time to change. Part of being attractive is acting attractive, if you show confidence people will be more attracted to you. A lot of people your age are in the same boat and can't tell what is REALLY attractive and are insecture. If you act like you are pretty and don't let the nasty comments bother you then people will assume you are pretty and popular. (just some hindsight from going through it a couple years ago. It's from the male side, but I saw how all you girls worked lol).

Answer 4

One of my favorite quotes from Harriet Beecher Stowe:
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."
You're question and statement are very vague, probably with reason. No one knows what's wrong except for you. Maybe ask yourself what you are doing that keeps you in the same situation, what have you access to, to change your pattern. Accepting yourself and accepting others is your own decision. You choose to hate. Once you face that hate, wherever it grew from, you'll realize that it simply masks hurt. Then you can deal with the hurt and let yourself heal.
I hope that you understand that you mean something to someone if not to every one.
Best of luck.

Answer 5

I know how you feel. For a long time i refused to accept i had bilogical, physical, emotional needs. If i felt something id supress it or run away from it. But eventually it caught up with me and i felt not so good. I decided that i needed to talk to someone, which i did. It worked, i mean i feel stuff now and i dont supress it, i let myself be human. It can be really powerful sometimes coz i think i was for so long frozen and that im not used to feeling. But it gets easier all the time. But the bottom line is you gotta admit that you need to talk to someone. Its not hard at all and it does work. Good luck dude

Answer 6

If you feel this way it is for a reason and you need to find out why. You can do that by speaking with a good counselor for talk therapy. If you have suicidal thoughts, that is serious and you need to seek out help for that to get you on the right road to better mental health. Don't wait and suffer, get help today, ok?

Answer 7

there are time you just cant accept who you are,, and then theres what will be,, try to go with the flow,, change is enevitable, no matter what its comin,, the mirror is a good thing,, you musta done something somewhere, some time that pleases yourself or someone else,, and your being would be missed if you left us, write me i'll talk w/ ya,, needs are normal,, fullfilling them can be difficult,, and so it goes and so goes life,, i'm w/ ya man, this is being one hell of a ride,, if i hadent learned how to play a musical instrument i woulda cash in a long time ago

Answer 8

Realize you are the only you you have, so you'll live better if you can accept yourself and others, life is going to be easier and you'll enjoy it more...maybe that will take the suicide thoughts away.
It would be better if you look for professional help.

Answer 9

don't.

be who you are, how you are and enjoy.

not the suicidal stuff tho, jus want for nature to take its course you will certainly die eventually just be patient and enjoy the ride. if you hate everything i'm sure you've got your reasons, if you feel proactive sometime maybe you can do your bit to improve the world

Answer 10

You have to learn to love yourself and accept yourself before you can accept anyone else. Always remember: If you do not care about yourself, then no one else will care either.

Answer 11

Try to find join in something. I was the same way, until i discovered snowboarding. now i hike the mountains just to get that perfect first run of the day. i found my happiness.