Okay as ya'll should know I have a boyfriend problem is that he not here for me when I need him than now all of a sudden my ex start calling me telling me that he still love we been broken up for about 7 months and my current boyfriend been together for 6 months it wasn't No big problem between my ex and me. I just broke-up with him because I couldn't take the long-distance relationship now he back and I don't know what to do I'm scared if I see my ex again that I'm going to fall back in love with him and I don't want that to happen and I can't avoid my ex forever. I really love my boyfriend that I have now. WHAT SHOULD I DO!
2006-10-11 03:50:54 · 8 answers · asked by Erica B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you luv ur boyfriend that much then shouldn't no man be able to become that. When he come around all you need to do is tell him you're seeing someone and yall just can't get bac together. Either he except it or he don't.
2006-10-11 03:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by realchikk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a pro/con list. I do this and it actually is very helpful. You say your current boyfriend isn't there for you now. Is it just a phase he is going through, like busy with work or school or something or is he just really making you feel unappreciated? Do you think you just feel the excitement of seeing your ex because you feel like you're not getting something in your relationship? Or it could be that the ex is actually your true love. That is, if it's true you only broke up because of the distance. You never know girl.
Follow your heart and your instinct.
2006-10-11 11:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters if you want your current boyfriend you should have a long talk with him about him not being there for you when you need him. Since you don't want to get back with your ex you need to tell him straight forward there's no chance of you getting back together with him and he needs to move on.
2006-10-11 11:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fear that you may start loving your ex proves that you are yet not in love with your current boyfriend but are finding him a good substitute to fill the void created by your ex. your ex still loves you that is sure coz though you dropped him but he couldn't forget you even after seven months. that's a real lover. may be you should talk to your ex on the phone & meet him once in person. you will be able to see the truth in his eyes.
2006-10-11 10:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really think of who's been there for u the most and u could see ur self with more obviously ur gonna break at least one heart so u should one guy down real easy
if u Love ur boyfriend now u wouldn't even be thinking of the other guy think of that stay committed and if u dont wanna be with him anymore let him off slow and tell him why
2006-10-11 10:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by spurs206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm.. that's hard .. i think that u should tell ur ex that u can't see him again but u can stay "friends" and tell your boyfriend that should be there for u when you really need him .. exactly as he wants you to be there for him when he needs you ..
Good luck
2006-10-11 11:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by judy abott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple....choose the one that you want, apologize to the other one, and explain to him youv'e made your decision....hard to do? it sure is, but at the end of the day, there's really no other option. its gonna be hard................but, best a luck, hope it helps.
2006-10-11 11:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your NOT going to fall back in love with him... dont worry
2006-10-11 10:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋