there is a guy i know him maybe for 1 year but he is my friend but now i am in love with him and i love him soooo much and he is going to travel out side to study but i don't know should i tell him that i love him before he leave ???? because i will see him after 1 week and he will travel maybe after 2 weeks and i am not going to see him again shell i tell him ????
2006-10-11 03:09:44 · 15 answers · asked by blair 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm thats a tough one...if you love him enough then let him go...if he wants to study abroad then why try and stop him. I would recommend sitting him down to dinner and tell him how you feel. But dont be disappointed if he goes away anyway.
2006-10-11 03:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have any idea if he feels the same about you? best friends tend to make the best lasting matches. consider the entire relationship, is he dating other people, has he expressed any particular interest in another person, if you two are truly best friends you will know the answers. you don't say how long he will be gone away to study, has he expressed any interest in keeping in contact with you or having you come visit him while he is gone? once you have resolved these answers i think you will know in your heart what is the best thing to do, sometimes it is better to keep a real good friend than taking a chance on losing that friendship for a possible romance. take a close look at your own feelings first make sure you are "in love" with him not just the idea of being in love, look around you a see what else you might be missing if he doesn't' feel the same about you, focus on other things to see how your life will be without him around or even in your circle of friends in case he decides to back away from you if you declare your love, who knows he could be having the exact same feelings as you but be just as nervous about declaring them as you. no one can really tell you what the best thing to do is, you have to go by your gut feelings, just be mentally prepared to receive less than what you're asking in case he' not in love with you
2006-10-11 03:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by connie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people always do this? Yes, tell him! What the hell is there to lose, take a chance on happiness. You'll regret letting him get away without him knowing how you really feel. If he doesn't feel the same, then that's okay, atleast you know you were brave enough to take that risk.
2006-10-11 03:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u r not sure whethr he likes u back or not .. so i advice u to go slow... i guess if u'll tell him now i mean b4 his goin then he will not b able to concentrate on his studies there...give him treat or take him 4 coffee..spend time wid him as much as u can... then u can hv contact wid him aftr wen he goes thr thru net or so then slowly thru chat tell him ur feelings staring by i miss U or so on..... but dnt tel him now.... or may b in 1year u'll start liking or loving sum1 else & realize tht the guy u wr thinkin abt was juz a frnd or it was lust... newayz
BEST LUCK!
2006-10-11 03:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to a great relationship is to be friends first. I am curious as to your age. This would be important as to his maturity.
Certainly be honest and tell him you feel your relationship has grown into stronger feelings for him. Carefully check his reactions. I would not just tell him you loved him too soon. You only set yourself up for a broken heart.
2006-10-11 03:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Judles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw that's so sad! I think you should tell him your true feelings for him before he leaves, and be sure and keep in contact with him! It will make him feel really good knowing that there is a girl out there who loves him! : )
2006-10-11 03:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Love Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to tell him otherwise you will always regret it. The worst thing that can happen is that he is not interested but even then at least you would know.
2006-10-11 03:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by keano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just convey your true feelings and leave rest on the destiny
2006-10-11 03:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by neetu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you sould tell him!Don't be afraid of his answer.Be brave!He may understand you!Just one question how old are both of you?
2006-10-11 03:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋