IF your man is always trying to keep u from hang out with guyz even if ur good friend is a guy but when it comes to him its ok for him to hang out with his x's gurl and talk behided my back to his mother when we have a problem and she always trys to kick me out of my man house what should i do
2006-10-11 03:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell your man that you don't want to raise him -- because he's selfish and immature.
2006-10-11 03:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't completely in love with this man than just walk away. That's a lot of headache for something that just isn't worth it. If you do love him, however, than you need to talk to him openly. Communication is the only key to a working relationship. Sit him down and tell him about your friendship with this guy. Tell him that though he is your best friend you have no desire to ever make it anything else. And also let him know that your friend feels the same way about you. You're more like brother and sister... And tell him that you don't mind it if he hangs out with his ex because you are secure in your relationship with him and that he should feel the same way. If he doesn't feel the same way that you need to ask him why and not get defensive when he tells you. Just deal with what is said and try and fix it together. The mother issue is something else entirely. After you finish talking openly about the friends then tell him that you'd like to always be able to speak openly about problems that arise in the future. Tell him you'd also like to keep it between the two of you only. If the mother thing happens again then just tell her she needs to take it up with your man not with you. Its your man's job to put her in her place, not yours.
2006-10-11 03:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I know how you feel, Tell him to go **** himeself cuz the guy that I am with tryed to do that and, as much as I love him that is what I told him, Also if there is no trust there is no relationship. Dont let a guy try and tell you what to do. You do what you want and, if you loose him, Brush your shoulders off he will relize what he lost.
Catt
2006-10-11 03:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all here is a hug just for you. HUG!!! second of all i would talk to him and if that doesnt work, i'd have to leave,hun. i wont put up with disrespect from anyone.
my boyf. punched me in the jaw over the summer and his mom blames me!!!! because he called the cops on him self and went to jail. so i know all about the mom thing.
2006-10-11 03:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Your boyfriend is a hypracrite, for one. If any of the guys I was involved with wasn't okay with my guys friends, they weren't okay with me. If you're able to handle his friends that are girls, you need make him aware it's his turn to do the same for you. As for his mom, screw her. :] Talk to him, it's between the two of you and she means nothing.
2006-10-11 03:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you try writing your question using proper english spelling and grammar so I can figure out what it is you are trying to ask?
2006-10-11 03:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur are married please do not let his mother interfere into business, give her back, if not get out from this mess before its gets too late. i know you love very much, He will not change and it will get worse.
2006-10-11 03:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by ameri a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wants to continue to breastfeed then maybe his mommy should move back home.
2006-10-11 03:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave!
2006-10-11 03:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say buh-bye!
2006-10-11 03:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋