Spinoff from another's question. How many average sized men look for plus-sized women? How many average sized women look for chubby / big men? What draws you in?
2006-10-11 02:58:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answers are whack. A lot of skinny guys end up with heavy women so long as he can respect her and she turns him on and strokes his ego. I am a chubby/large guy and fight off skinny women with a stick. I ain't much to look at, but I am well groomed and can charm the hell out of a women. She doesn't see the fat through all my class, humor, and charm. To the asker on another question......Be a big woman who is confident and you will find a man.
2006-10-11 03:05:14 · update #1
well, i am a slim girl myself...but i must admit i would prefer a man with a bit of meat ;-) haha nah i mean, i would like a kinda chubby fella...sumthing to hold :-D oh god, tht does not sound good! haha i will shut up nw
2006-10-11 03:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually I can say I go for the personality & dont' care if he's skinny or fat - BUT the last two men I've dated were "big guys"; not just overweight, but big men all the way around. Big feet, big muscles, etc - I loved it! They made me feel safe, protected, they were gentle with me even tho they were so strong. The personality is the main thing, tho . . . I'm plus-sized & I have had mostly average men date me all of my life, married 2 average sized men - so yeah, there are plenty of average men who will date or go for or marry plus-sized women . . .
2006-10-11 03:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is any thing wrong with some one who has meat on them and for the people that say YUK they are just jealous because big women have alot of love to give and so do big men any how I aint tring to be rude but big is beautifull and thin is not so attractive I am thin and would rather have some meat on my bones but what draws me in is the personality and caring and the heart not the body GOOD LUCK
2006-10-11 03:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by crystal a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fat and Normal are two different subject's. Looks are over rated a long with weight. You fall in love with someone because of the person they are not what size pants they wear!!
2006-10-11 03:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Niecy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im a bbw and I love meat on a guy as well! I prefer a guy with a cute little pot belly and a sexy happy trail...mmm, Not too big, but I absolutely get turned off by ripped abs. I dont know why?
2006-10-11 03:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
some women like in easy terms adult men who're a million foot or taller than them --different women do no longer think of that way. Its the comparable with adult men. some adult men somewhat like curvy women extra (Marylin monroe grew to become the main renowned curvy female with legions of followers) and others somewhat like skinny women (Twiggy had her very own legion of followers--the stunning stick female!). Its appropriate to the kind each and each guy prefers. some adult men like girly women others tomboys and others goth women and so on. the situation is there is not any one extra effective selection contained in the final inhabitants over yet another as far as i can tell. each and each has its followers. pass with what you obtain after which you will shine.
2016-10-02 04:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by boland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not into fat chicks at all. I myself am not fat and don't like women larger than me. If you have kids, typically a woman will add some weight. If she is fat before she has kids, a woman will balloon into a fat slob after the child is born. No thanks to that.
Also, meatballs run in families. If I meet a girl and her mother is fat chances are she will be fat as well. That is a deal breaker.
2006-10-11 03:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Trips 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well I think that it's the way that it happens, I am very skinny 120 pounds and thats after having my first child, And my boyfriend is nothing close to skinny. But, met him and we hung out and I feel in love. Its not the size that matters its the person underneath.
if you think i could be wrong e-mail me cat_baby_1@hotmail.com
2006-10-11 03:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't get turned on by "fat" guys, but I do like big guys. I definitely need a guy to be tall (at least 6'0") and if he has a little bit of meat on him that's hot too :)
2006-10-11 03:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by sommerluvn77 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as I haven't had luck with skinny guys, I would be totally okay dating a teddy bear of a man.
2006-10-11 03:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋