I've a bf in East Hartford, Connecticut. We've been dating online for 2 years, and I told him that I'll be going to Connecticut to further my studies soon. I made my visa last year, but it got delayed for some reasons. I'm still in Sydney, undergoing my surgery because im suffering from RSD. The problem is, he doesn't want to wait. He said he would stop waiting for me on September, and he did just that. He said he didn't care... He didn't want to wait indefinitely..We argue a lot, and he blames me for everything.. He said he would get another bf should I come a little later.
To date, I've sacrificed my scholarships, my friends, and an opportunity for a writing career just to get to East Hartford. Alas, I'm rejected. There's no going back. Last year, I found out that he had been cheating on me - he had been dating another guy, and he even went to bed with two people. But still, I stayed with him because I love him.
Now, I dont know if he's still cheating on me.
What should I do?
2006-10-11 02:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by Joey W Martin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously don't trust him. Go to Hartford, because there's no going back at this point. Do it on your own accord. Or, see if you can get that writing career back, and stay in Sydney. The distance may help you heal.
Read "It's Called a Break-Up Because its' Broken" by Greg and Amiira Behredent (I think is how you spell their name). It's written for a girl getting over a guy, but I think that it may help you still, the tips and rules are great.
2006-10-11 03:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He became of course in basic terms thinking approximately what he needed and not what he became doing to you. you will in no way have the potential to totally believe him lower back. Do you definitely need to spend your existence with a guy who will consistently make you ask your self? i could bypass away him and discover somebody who would not cheat. how many cases will he cheat and repent before you recognize that he will in no way replace? i comprehend it became in basic terms one time - supposedly. possibly that's in basic terms the only time you caught him. check out something of your dating. Have there been different little lies or hide united statesthat appeared insignificant on the time? in case you extremely prefer to stay with him then get counseling, by way of fact in the long-term you will actual prefer it.
2016-10-16 01:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Let him go, and don't ever sacrifice anything like that for anyone. If this person truly loved you, he would've waited an eternity AND would've been supportive. What a loser.
2006-10-11 03:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really not that hard to tell that you love him if you sacrificed all of that but if he has decided that he's gonna do what makes him happy then I think it's about time you start thinking the same thing
2006-10-11 02:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about him... and pick up the pieces of your own life.
2006-10-11 02:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....staying involved with a cheat is just stupid....a cheating gay guy...well that's just a stupid death sentence.
2006-10-11 02:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mortgage your future for someone who treats you that way.GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE
2006-10-11 02:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by pdudenhefer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2006-10-11 02:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're a homosexual!!!!!!!! I wonder, i just wonder......
2006-10-11 03:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋