i am a bigger girl, and i have a lot of friends, but not a bf, and i am wondering if it is just me, or the whole of the male population....
2006-10-11 02:52:18 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not everyone, but i like slim girls
2006-10-11 02:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an out right lie. Only dogs want bones. This is cultural. I find that lots of white guys only want skinny women, while black guys have a sorted taste and many of them date thick women. Some even date large women. I guess so long as you are not morbidly obest you should be dateable.
The reason you don't have a bf is that you haven't broadened your scope on men. Find out what guys like big women and then present yourself in a fun, clean, well groomed way. Be flirty but not dirty.
2006-10-11 02:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with a guy who only likes slim girls then I think this is a bit shallow and you don't really want to be with him.
The true man that you should be with will love you for who you regardless of your size. It is true that your looks are usually what makes the initial attraction but after that its up to your personality.
You should use your skinny friends to attract men to your group but then win them over with your fantastic personality leaving all your skinny mates standing.
Also it is most likely that the right guy will come along just when you least expect it.
2006-10-11 02:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by peachybumcheeks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it goes way back to primitive times when a male chose the most viable female in order to reproduce. I believe it is a basic primitive instinct.
But on the other hand and perhaps a lighter answer men are shallow we tend to go with looks and not what's important and that is what's on the inside is what really matters.
2006-10-11 02:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more flesh that you have, the easier it is to look different than the norm. It has been proven that everyone likes those more that they perceive as normal.
That doesn't mean that there are no guys for you. Believe me, a lot of guys feel the same way you do. Best wishes.
2006-10-11 02:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just obviously haven't found the right guy yet, i'm not small, or huge.. but i have extra padding, and i have a boyfriend, and have had, when i was even larger. Go out there.. find him!! To be honest, i think more recently, guys like curves and larger women...its better than seeing a stick walk down the road.. don't you agree?? Good Luck XXX
2006-10-11 02:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jemma P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generalizations tend to get us in trouble, sweetie. Not ALL guys like skinny women, some prefer "bigger girls". When the right guy comes along, he'll like you for who you are and not what you look like.
2006-10-11 02:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nah...I've gone out with all types of girls....its not really the body type in the end but the actual girl that you like....thing is if you're looking for someone to go out with don't sell yourself short cause in 30 years or so the hot girl dumb wont be hot but will still be dumb(cant get implants for that) but a smart chubby girl will always be smart
2006-10-11 02:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society. I think a lot of men think its only ok to date skinny girls. But men are attracted to all types. As long as you live a healthy lifestyle and have healthy self-esteem, guys will like ya!
2006-10-11 02:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on your definition of skinny, I have noticed that these days lots of women call normal or petite yet still healthy girls skinny out of jealousy. My concern straight up is that you are a fat woman who calls too many women skinny out of jealousy and insecurity. America has warped the view of how women should look in an unhealthy way and I hate it. Fat women are becoming a majority and now refuse to accept normal women as normal and call them skinny, they have adjusted standards to fit their weak wills and bad habits and it makes me sick.
2006-10-11 02:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not that I just like skinny girls,it's the fact that I don't want a girl that weighs more than me. I'm not trying to be mean or offend anyone here but that's just me.
2006-10-11 02:57:48 · answer #11 · answered by Daryl C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋