Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
Is this actually a way of flirting?
Also, when she isn't messing like this, she is more serious to me than others, she tells me if she is feeling bad.
Another thing related to mthis is that when we are around friends, she does this and we playfully mock each other, but when we are alone she is more sincere with me.
All of theis is playfull, she is fairly petite, and I am well.,., not, lol, I'm a black belt and stuff.
2006-10-11 02:36:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you know the black belt doesn't come into this right? Even if she is a bit agressive...right??
So, maybe you needed to be hit in the head with a brick to let you know she likes you?? I wish I had done that years ago, & my friend agrees...but he is married to someone else & 2000 miles away.
She does like you. If the hitting in the head doesn't stop when you let her know you know, then you may have an aggressive lady. If you like that, go for it!
2006-10-11 02:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a school girls crush on you and you should do well to strictly pay attention to her, if she is what you want, because she has all the signals that 'your the one' for her:)
Hey, eventually these book hittings and all that will stop and she will get down to more serious things, which you will appreciate and love...
Take it slow, and no funny stuff, let "her" do things at her own pace... She is just feeling you out right now, and guaging all your reactions to her... If you let her do what she wants, she will let you "know" the time and place, where love will start, and you two will become a couple.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-10-11 09:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that was like that and it annoyed the hell out of me. It was a guy though, some people just think that it is ok to go around hitting other people if you aren't trying to hurt them.
I think that is just her way of saying hello.
But you can still bang her, she would probably be a bit rough in bed though
2006-10-11 10:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men, what are you waiting for? She is doing your job nicely for this you have to praise award her...may be by flirting back, if you are unable to do this. And if she is stopped doing your job...you will regret very much and believe me she would be doing to some who can understand the moment she stopped flirting with you.
2006-10-11 10:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Montel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man she is so close to you that she puts all emotions into u, thats all, take it easy. Seems she thinks u r the only one to share sentiments with. Its kind of love not flirt.
2006-10-11 09:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Biss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hittin u is not enough 2 say shes flirtin wid u!she is b-in playfull n this cums in very relationship!wat looks lik is shes ur very gud frn!wen u get d vibes dat she likes u then go ahead not now wen ur not completely sure! Ciao: )
2006-10-11 09:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by sugar plum faery10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the to of you are alone like normal and having one of those sincere moments and she is telling you how she fells ask her if she likes you and take it from there. She Really LIKES U.
2006-10-11 09:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's flirting...flirt back. Or take her around the corner where it's just you and her and plant one on her.
2006-10-11 09:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes you man make her your girl
2006-10-11 09:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by kalik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she loves u buddy
2006-10-11 09:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Friends Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋