My question is asking....lets say a guy and a girl been dating for about 3 years and they say their in love and they want to be together for the rest of their lives... but they only have one problem and that would be they fight and get mad and upset from each other all the time? do you think they would be ready if they say they are?
2006-10-11 02:33:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was and I did and divorced him at 32. Answer to your Q, I wouldn't do it again and You should wait. Where is he going that it can't wait? We never faught and still divorced. Paitience my child. Just live together unless it's against your religion. Okay I can't help it!! DO NOT DO It!!!!! Now I feel better
2006-10-11 02:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i got married when i was 18 and he was 20 something we had some really hard times but were still together and it will be 7 years in may i love him more today.I think is all up to the people but I do recommend the love birds get a career and go from there first because marriage is hard enough without money problems.
2006-10-11 09:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I think that is an early age for anyone?
Will one grow up to resent the other for losing out on the best years of their life (often times people say no, but that does happen on a sub-conscience level).
Also, if they are already arguing now - then the pressures and responsibilities of being a married adult will way on them even more.
I would tell them that if they love each other, then they can wait.
They will both be better off.
2006-10-11 09:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by JMFS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. The signs are already there. Its bound to fail. I mean disagreement is normal in a marriage but if you seem to always disagree, then you don't have a common ground.
Besides that, at age 18, you are too young to be thinking of marriage. You have no business thinking about marriage. Go out and explore the world. Don't bind yourself to someone that was your first love simply coz U think they should be your only love. Think of all the growing you will miss out on. They say experience strengthens us. So go out there and get stronger.
2006-10-11 10:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by curtis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.... If you fight now, it will only be harder in the future! Next you will fight over money, then the kids, and then him wanting to run around... I'm sure it is not out of both of yours systems. Just wait... there is so much time. Enjoy each other while you are together and who knows what will happen later on down the line.
2006-10-11 09:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by CSI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, at 18 i wasnt ready for marriage.. I think that is too young.. to be fresh out of highschool with no real life experiances under your belt. If I was 18 again, i wouldn't get married. Young love can be so fickle. wait it out a few more yrs and see if it lasts. go to college, many things including love can change.
2006-10-11 09:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by babyfeary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being 18 life has so many curves to trow at them they need to wait for at least 4 more years so they can get past all the things that life hands them like when one reaches the drinking age first the he or she wants to go out and having babies at 18 is so rough i know this cause i was married at 18 had 3 babies with my girlfriend befroe age 21 lost one in a home fire one was sick then she left me for a man that was 45 years old when she was 22 so i know that things happen i raised my kids as a single dad for the past 19 years. they are now grown and happy its time for me to live my life good luck ...
2006-10-11 09:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by lcox65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Fighting is not a fun thing for a married couple. Think about it, Marriage is a big responsibility. You will wind up to divorce each other. Be careful.
2006-10-11 09:39:44 · answer #8 · answered by shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noway- 18 is too young. you both will do so much growing in the next few years. and if you are already fighting and getting mad at each other what makes you think things are going to get any better? not a good sign.
2006-10-11 09:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think age means nothing in this case, there are plenty of 18 year olds that are more mature then the parents they have.
But in your case, I wouldnt get engaged if you are constantly arguing, with marriage comes more complications (bills, Children, housing, jobs). and if you're relationship is unstable right now, it can only get worse.
I say wait till your Stable, (financially and in your Relationship) and then proceed to whatever you want in life!
Good luck =)
2006-10-11 09:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by smile4me936 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I got married when I was 20, my wife was 19... we found out over the next 10+ years that we were in no way shape or form done maturing. And who we were when we entered our 30's was not who we were in our 20's thus being a leading cause of our divorce. I highly suggest you not marry so young.
2006-10-11 09:37:26 · answer #11 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋