really close with but never got the chance to date... because both of us always have bf/gf. This had to be like 3 years ago. I still have feelings for this man, and I have told him that I just can't get it him out of my head. He is currently in a relationship for 2 years or so. He seems unhappy in it, but he says it's hard to break up with someone who doesn't want anything but to just be with you. But I met up with him and he claims to feel the same way I do about him. He even cheated on his girlfriend by giving me a kiss, and coming to see me etc. We haved lived far away from eachother for awhile and I'm currently moving back to the area. I don't want to date quite yet, but I do feel a stronge connection with him, and I just don't know what he's going to do. Him and his girlfriend have broken up many times in the past... but I don't just want to be a side rebound!!! I think his feelings are true, but I would just like some advice... I hope this makes sense... thank you!
2006-10-11 02:30:30 · 4 answers · asked by dorothy d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is coming to see you while in a relationship with someone else . Who will he go to when or if you start dating him ?
2006-10-11 02:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Geronimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow , you truely dont get relationships at all.You claim you do not want to be a rebound relationship with this new guy BUT you yourself just broke up with your boyfriend.LOL
If your where still involved with your boyfriend and some female tryed this on you , you would be calling her all kinds of nice names like bimbo and whore , but since it is you doing this and he gives the same impression about you , that makes it ok .... WRONG !
Grow Up since you just broke it off with your boyfriend and this guy is STILL seeing another female stop leading him on and you stop being the OTHER female !
You want to date this guy fine , have him break it off qwith his girlfriend and you bot hcan hump like rabbitts , cuz thats what this will be a flash in the pan deal , you both will get bored and say oh well it was fu nwhile it lasted.Then move on down the road, so why not cut to the move on down the road now and save this female feelings and you and him both grow up and have some respect for each others relationships other the nthe one you both are trying to start.
2006-10-11 02:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your asking for advice i would say i understand what your going thru because I've been there... and i did met up with this guy while he was dating this girl and i thought oh well she'll never know because she doesn't know who i am.. But then it backfired at me..He did like me and i liked him alot and we were friends about 4 years and then the friendship ended up being more.. But it was wrong that i did see him more then once even when i knew he had a girlfriend. Because she found out and called me and we fought but it was my fault even though i didn't admit it to her. But i mean if he likes you that much, he would leave his girlfriend and not worry about whats gonna happen as long as he has you.. But if he's saying its hard to leave her and some other B.S then don't waste your time Girl! :)
2006-10-11 02:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont involve urself in a trio.. only if ur truely singles, go ahead, or avoid, it will bring distress only.
2006-10-11 02:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Friends Forever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋