Me snd my ex were together for a while and we recently broke up but I still love him and I want to work things out but he doesn't want anything to do with me. what can I do? Do I give him time or do I let it go.
2006-10-11 02:23:32 · 15 answers · asked by Mz. Chavis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go. If you push for it, you are just asking to prove you are right every step of the way. Find someone who wants you with every fiber of his being. You deserve no less.
2006-10-11 02:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i was in ur shoes before
do not ask for him back since it didnt work the first time
remember what doesnt work do not continue doing it
now there might be a next time he will call you if not
u give it a couple of day and u call him
either or, u tell him " that he was right and thank you for ending the relationship (u didnt tell us why u broke up but if u broke because of too many fights then tell him that ending the relationship due too many fights was the best thing to do)
now i know u r probably saying no i dont want to say that to him because i really want him. ok well if u look at the situation he is not looking for u u r looking for him
now let me continue, now once u told him that
just talk about how happy u r being single
u may ask why, well it looks like to moving faster than he is towards a break up
remember at this present time there s a clash of interest between the two
once u set up the ground work
call him from time to time
keep the convo short ans sweet
it should be done like this
short talk happy talk short talk happy talk
stay consistent
never tell him u love him, if he comes to u for advice
advise him but dont go out of ur way for him and this include anything he may ask u
eventually he will realize ur true beauty u guys could get back together
if u further questions
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2006-10-11 02:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. But if he's texting other girls and this isn't the first time you've broken up, I think it's time to let this one go. There will be many others and you shouldh't waste your time anymore crying over him when clearly he doesn't really care. Compromising your studies for a boy is a horrible idea - school comes first and it's way more important then any boy (you'll figure this out when you're older). Go to school and while you can talk to your friends about it, don't cry all day over him - try to get into your classes mentally and avoid him in the halls if you can.
2016-03-28 04:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, what you are feeling right now is mostly down to change give it time and you will get used to not being with him. He sounds like he has put closure to the relationship by keeping going back in there you are only delaying your closure and pushing him further away. Solution would be to go out with your mates and have a night on the town.
2006-10-11 02:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by mark b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should just let it go because something had to be wrong in the relationship if he didn't want to be with you. You say you love him but if you really did you would just move on and let him sort this out then see what he has to say. It would only make you bitter and heart broken if you try to hang to something that isn't there so just let him be for now and try to talk to him l8ter. If he really love you he would come back and you know it.
2006-10-11 02:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Toki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, if you guys broke up something was not right in the relationship so let it burn.
If you keep calling it will only make things bad for the both of you
2006-10-11 02:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say you can't force someone to be with you, if he doesn't want to continue with the relationship... move on. Don't sit there holding your life up for him. If he wants to re-kindle what you two had down the line, he knows where to find you and if you feel that you are willing to go back to him at that point then you do it... otherwise, let it go.
2006-10-11 02:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by smiley_140 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say let it go. If it didn't work out the first time, it never will the second or third and so on. Move on with your life; I'm sure there is someone better out there for you. =)
2006-10-11 02:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by brokeninthebox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the dummy go, his loss. Go find some nice guy and make him the lucky fella who gets to share time with you.
2006-10-11 02:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by fishing66833 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, sweetheart. Obviously he has moved on and you need to do the same. I know it sucks. You may think he is Mr. Right but he is not thinking your right for him. Please don't waste your time and energy on someone who is not returning the same feelings. Your guy is out there, he will find you.
2006-10-11 02:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by mkathy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋