1. The girl that can't stop thinking about you and comes to visit/hang out as often as possible, usually several hours a day, pines for you when you aren't there, thinks of you at all times and misses you like crazy when you're away... and is all about the kisses and hugs and caresses...
OR
2. The girl that loves you alot, but has her own sense of purpose in life. She is dedicated to her work or studies, and has opinions of her own. She can be fine if you're not there, hangs out with her friends alot or just focuses on work, gives you as much space as possible, and the kisses and hugs are few but precious. She has a strong sense of self and seems like she would be fine on her own if you went away for a while.
Thanks!
2006-10-11 02:21:51 · 13 answers · asked by reba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the independent girl is cool. The loving and attention from the first one is fine but when you are constantly thinking of someone else, you will never have time to develop your self. As a guy, I need time to be with her and also time for other staff. If she wants to be with me 24/7, it just won't work.
2006-10-11 02:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
the suited woman is a mix of the two. positioned yet differently, adult men like the two traits, based on the circumstances. "Clingy" has unfavorable connotations--no person needs that. a extra effective selection could be "dating oriented"--i don't comprehend, some thing like that. adult men appreciate women people who're self sustaining, yet whilst they are like that too lots, the two will bang heads. And have faith it or not, adult men prefer intimacy in a dating as lots, if not extra so, than a woman, yet no person needs a basket case to babysit. My 2 cents properly worth: be your self, yet paintings at appealing him. If this would not paintings (and you at the instant are not married), think ofyou've have been given to throw in the towel.
2016-10-16 01:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-11 21:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way you worded it, obviously number 2 because number 1 is selfish and difficult to trust. That being said, if someone is clingy to have a good relationship and isn't pushy about it, that's probably better.
2006-10-11 02:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
preferably a bit of both, by having your own group of mates that you go out with and talk with meens that when you are together you will have a lot more to talk about and meens that neither party feels smothered, it is always good to feel needed.
2006-10-11 02:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by mark b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take some of those qualities and put them in one person, thats what we want.it depends on the situation. we want girls to love us, but we would get scared if you were totally dependant on us to live like most clingy girls are
2006-10-11 02:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd go with the clingy girl
but really the best is a combination of clingy & independent!!!! too clingy gets annoying and smothering. too independent, you feel too lonely and don't know if they love you or are cheating on you.
2006-10-11 02:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
A little bit of both, there has to be a even balance
2006-10-11 02:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I like independant and clingy
2006-10-11 02:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OMG, clingy girls are HORRIBLE! Its like having Velcro stuck to you all day and its suffocating.
My wife is very independent, as am I, but that does not mean we are not affectionate.
2006-10-11 02:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋