and i dont know who to be with..theyre both amazing guyz.. both who live a bit far from me.. one farther than the other.. but distance doesnt bother me so much =[ help!
I know I shouldnt let it bother me so much but idk what to do and its so confusing...
2006-10-11 02:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by lila 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes.."offensivetoall" you are one of them... =]
2006-10-11 03:48:26 · update #1
I've got a certain insight to this question... because I think I'm one of the two guys. *Smirk*
I think you should take your time, answer whatever questions you have about them, because there are always questions.
The distance is actually a good thing because it will keep you from rushing into anything. And remember that you don't have to make a choice yet. Both guys are at a safe distance where you can take your time and figure out what you want, and who can give it to you best.
2006-10-11 03:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is an easy answer to this one. Do I beleive you can love two people at one time, yes I do. Do I think you can make a decision about choosing one over the other, no I don't. If decisions were easy, life wouldn't be so hard. In the end someone is going to be hurt, and that is what makes situations like this so hard. If you choose bachelor number 1, will you always wonder what could have been with number 2. Really not fair to anyone. If they both left you, which one would you miss more. I really don't have a answer for you, I wish I did. The only thing I can say is, really know whats in your heart because one of these guys are going to be hurt so be gentle and be sure your making the right decision.
2006-10-11 09:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by mkathy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See Which One Likes You The Most And take It from there.
2006-10-11 09:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Nikkia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are being judgmental here. When you love someone you don't judge them like this. But still in your case, analyze how do they response to your problems and compare them with your own preferences in life. Know more about yourself and you'll find the answer. Guys who are not so independant will share lot of love and care throughout their life and independant people have more tendency to flirt and are social butterflies. Choice is yours.
2006-10-11 09:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by cold_hard_freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the 3rd guy..
Dr Bad
2006-10-11 09:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a question that will backfire you, how could you say you love someone if you love another one. if i was the guy i should say that. but if the guy is patient enough and one of them will last or pass your trials then his the one
2006-10-11 09:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by miaka y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see which one treats you better since they are both great guys and then go from there
2006-10-11 09:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date both of them!!! Just let them both know that!!
2006-10-11 09:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋